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1st July 2009, 02:43 AM
Doston Pulkit gupta jii ke baare meiN, aap sab achhi tarah se jaante haiN, ek bohat hi khaas shakhsiyat haiN .. Ek achhe Shayar hone ke saath saath ek bohat achhe insaan bhii haiN.
Pulkit jee aap ko is 'interview' ke katghare meiN, maiN poore 'Shayri.com' ki jaanib se swaagat karti huuN.. ummeed hai iss 'interview' ke bahaane aap ke baare meiN kaafi kuch jaanne ka aur aap se seekh ne ka mauqa milega, aur yeh bhii ummeed hai kii na sirf aap ke liye balki puure shayri.com parivaar ke liye aap ka yeh interview khushgawaar rahega.. ab aap se darkhwaast haiN kii aap jald se haazir ho jaayeN ..Lijiye meri taraf se kuch sawaal: 1.Sab se pehle aap apne baare me kuch bataiye aapni family, friends,hobbies,likes,dislikes etc..... 2. Shayri.com per aap kaise pahunche,aur ab tak ka aapka sdc ka safar kaisa raha......? 3.Aap kab se Shayri kar rahe haiN, aur aap ka Shayri meiN jhukaav kii wajah kya hai? Shayri ki shuruaat kaise kii aur kab kii...? Chaliye filhaal itna hi...kuch aur sawalon ke saath maiN dubaara hazir hungi..... Shukriyah! Zainy PalkoN ki baand ko tod ke daaman pe aa gira Ek aaNsu mere zabt ki tauheen kar gaya... Nm |
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1st July 2009, 07:00 PM
Pulkit bhai,
kaise ho? is kaTghare me.n aap ka swaagat hai  achcha laga aap ko yahaa.n dekh kar.. ummed hai is interview ke bahaane aap ke jeevan ke kuchh anchhuye pahlu ke baare me.n bhii jaan,ne ka mauqa milegaa.. abhii koii sawaal nahii.n kar raha huu.n  sab se pahle aap zainy jee ke sawaalo.n ke jawaab deejiye, mai.n phir haazir hota huu.n.. BREAK KE BAADMayank |
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2nd July 2009, 02:21 PM
Hi Zainy,
Firstly thanks for having me here... Now let me try and answer your questions...About me... I am a Programmer Analyst by profession working with an E-Learning company... I live in a joint family... My chacha's family and my Tauji's family... Sab ke baare me baat karoonga to bahut lamba ho jaayega... so will talk about specific people... Meri mom ek housewife hain...Simple lady but follows her ethics very strongly... My sister is also an housewife, married to a business man... I got married in November last year...My Wife's name is Shweta and she is a teacher by profession... Our's was a love marriage... i.e. we got engaged, had 50 days before marriage... knew each other in this period, fall in love and got married... Huii naa Love Marriage  atleast mere liye to thhi... Ek pandit ne mujhe bola thha ke merii love marriage hogi and so was it Then I have 3 kids... Arre... Don't think wild.... Nieces and Nephew... Ek Bhaanja - Sparsh (1.5 years), Ek Bhatiji - Sneha - (Almost 2 years) and another bhaanji - Riddhima (5 years). These kids are my life... the younger 2 are very very naughty... Riddhima seems to very sweet compared to them... but she's notorious too... Love spending time with them... (As much as they love spending time with me )I am a simple person, always like to be surrounded by people... Akele rehna mujhe bilkul pasand nahin... Humesha doston ke saath, family ke saath time spend karna accha lagta hai... Like Music, Dancing and Poetry for sure....I am not at all an introvert... love to speak and share what I feel... though I am a little reserved when a relationship starts... Dheere dheere jab wave-lengths milne lagti hain to fir main koi hichak nahin rakhta.... Apne baare me itna hi... Aur kucch specific aap poochenge to bataaonga... Shayri ka safar.... Well it's been an unbelievable journey to say the least... Shayri.com has given me so much... not just in terms on knowledge of poetry but I have learnt so much as a person... yahaan aakar alag alag cultures ke alag alag deshon ke...alag alag belief waale logon se mulaakaat huii aur har insaan se bahut kucch seekha... Acchi baaten bhi seekhin aur yeh bhi seekha ke buraai har jagah maujood ho sakti hai...aur kaise usse door raha jaaye.... I was so naive when I joined this site and it has refined me soo much... Safar kaise shuru huwa... Well 30th August 2003 was the special day... Us zamaane me SMS shayri ka naya shauk paida huwa thha and to be popular amongst the friends... I kept searching for new ones on the net... dhoondte dhoondte pahunch gaye shayri.com... Could not read the poetries without signing in so signed up and joined the site.... Jo pehlii ghazal maine yahaan padhi thhi... woh thhi Maikash saahab kii... aur uske do sher dil me aise chhape ke aaj tak asar hai... woh Sher kucch yuun thhe... Maikash bhai... aage jo likh raha hoon, padhkar chhota bhai samajh maaf kijiyega... dil ko dard haathon ko kalam de gaye hain kaise kaise tohfe mere sanam de gaye hain sun-ne waale rote hain sunane waale rote hain "maikasH" ki ghazlon ko itnaa gam de gaye hain Yeh padhkar dil se bass waah waaah aur waaaah hi nikli... Ab main naadaan ghazal ki baarekiyon se anjaan... "maikasH" ek takalluf hai,. meri samajh se pare thha... maine urdu dictionaries me bahut dhoondha "maikasH" ka matlab magar kucch naa milaa... Ab humne apne hunar ka istemaal kate huwe... Ek sms banaaya jo ke yuun thha... dil ko dard haathon ko kalam de gaye hain kaise kaise tohfe mere sanam de gaye hain sun-ne waale rote hain sunane waale rote hain "Shayar" ki ghazlon ko itnaa gam de gaye hain Aaj sochta hoon us din ko to bahut hansi aati hai khud par.... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 03:31 PM
Jab site join kii thii... tab yeh kabhi nahin socha thha ke yahaan kucch aise logon se miloonga jinse dil ka gehra rishta ban jaayega aur kabhi real life me hum mil bhi paayenge... Today when I look back it all seems so unrealistic... Aaj yun meshsoos ho raha hai jaise kisi chhote bacche ke haath me slate aur chalk de diya hai... mera mann karta hai ke bass likhta hi jaoon likhta hi jaoon... I have so much to talk about this site and the people associated with this site... Khair... shuruaat karta hoon...
When I first joined the site, one person's posts I liked a lot was "Afshan", she then used to write with the ID "Banno". Her verses were so simple and so touching that I could not resist messaging to her. Wahaan judha shayri.com se pehla rishta, ek behan ka rishta... I started calling her didi and it was a start of a beautiful bond... She then used to live in UAE... now she's in B'lore married to Kadeer bhai...who's also a wonderful wonderful person... Kadeer bhai being from somewhat related profession as me did give me some valuable advice.... The most beautiful memory with Afshan di is when she came to India and sent me a greeting card on Rakshabandhan... This greeting card had a hand written letter for me and roli chawal for teeka.... I just can't express in words how I felt when I read that letter... Love Banno di and kaddu bhai for all theie love and affection.... Well... Shayri ka safar shuru huwa to shauk huwa post karne kaa... Badhe shayron ki ghazlen dhoond dhoond ke laata thha aur post karta thha...At one time, I was the best copy-paste shayar on the site  (re zindagi me kahin to best thha). To start with, I did not mention the name of the poet whose kalaam I was sharing... Ek baar "Meena didi" ne reply kiya aur kahaa ke aapne bahut accha likha hai... jispar maine unhe kaha ke main nahin likhta aur yeh sirf copy-paste hai... Meena didi ne is par mujhe kahaa ke aage se poet ka naam mention karoon.... Kab socha thha ke woh shuruaat thhi ek aise rishte ki jisko kaii khoon ke rishton se bhi oopar maanta hoon... Kucch dinon baad kisi ne Meena di ke b'day ka post daala thha to maine didi ko wish kiya aur kaha ke unhone mujhe sahi taraf guide kiya... She thanked me on a PM and then we started exchanging PMs. Meena didi jaisa suljha insaan maine apne jeevan me doosra nahin dekha... the way she manages both work and home... the amount of patience she has...unko chhookar, unhe mehsoos karke negativities apne aap positive ho jaati hain... I can share everything with her.. even somethings I can't share with my mom... Woh maa hain... and call it destiny... my mom and Meena di have their b'days on the same day... 2nd october... I made a lot of very good friends around this period... One of them was Shimul... She would reply to every post of mine and dedicate a song... then I would reply back for her to write another song... I really cherish her friendship and we used to chat regularly... Us zamaane me mere paas kaam kam time zyada thha, aisi company join ki thhi jahaan full time internet access thha (Mind you, it was a great thing to have 6 years back!). I still remember those roses on the posts and her sign off line "Dil se duaayen aur dher saare phool". She was loved by all the members of the site so much that I remember her Bday post crossing over 100 replies... we all had a hell lot of fun on that post.... Those days, one person who was very visible amongst the elite members of the site was Parastaar...Paras bhaari bharkam urdu me shayri likhti thhin and I had to request her to post the meanings for me ... For me, she was like Amitabh Bacchan of SDC... one fine day she suddenly popped up on Yahoo... Now you can imagine how would a layman feel if Amitabh pops in front of him! That was a beginning of another association, very close to my heart... She is a friend, a guide and a Guru to me... she taught me so much.... she taught me to be a better person... As I always tell her...She cast her magic wand on me... jaadu ki chhadi ghuma kar mujhe insaan banaa diya... Infact one of my favorite poem is the one I wrote for her on her B'day... Sorry Paras for not being able to wish you this year...  Sanju... Sanjj was a very popular face on SDC at that time... he was a dude of shayri.com... livewire... always up to some prank or other... always smiling... always teasing girls... Use dekh ke lagta thha zindadili kise kehte hain... he was the hearthrob of SDC... I guess God liked him too much and called him to his place at that young age.... Do lines sanju ki Sirhane Sirahne tum raha karo, Khwab jo aayein palkon me, aa jaya karo.. Meri band aankhon ka tasavvur ho, kabhi khuli aankhon me bhi aa jya karo I came in touch with Amanush (Aka Mushkil)... My Danny bhaiya... bhaiya used to write some awesome english verses aur jab hindi me likhte thhe to unki cute hindi dil me bass jaaati thhi... I think some rishte are destined... Bhiaya called me "Chhote bhaiya" from the first day on... I think he's a messenger, God has sent to always take care of me I have been talking more about people and not about shayri... Yeh interview ki jagah meri biography ban raha hai.... well that's how amazing my journey has been here.... would continue.... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 04:02 PM
wow!!....pulkit jee.............aapka ye reply padhker...yakeen maniye aysa laga jaise maine ek dusri hi duniya ki sayr ki ho.......itne dino se yahan reh rahi huun, per hamare site ke in sab members ke baare me to hum kuch jaante hi nahi the.....aaj aap ki zubaani sabhi puraane members ke baare me jaanker behad khushi ho rahi hai.........
pulkit jee main jaanti huun ke aap is site ke kayi membrs se mile bhi hain aur unke saath aapki kuch tasveerey bhi hain....aur aapne apne kuch thread per un tasveeron ko attach bhi kiya tha...per kuch problem ki wajah se wo tasveerey khul nahi rahi hain....... meri aapse guzarish hai ke aap sdc members ki woh tasveerey dubaara is thread per attach kijiye.......hum sab ko behad khushi hogi........ aap ka bohat bohat shukriyah aapne mere sawalon ke jawaab bade hi itmenaan ke saath diye thanks once again... Zainy PalkoN ki baand ko tod ke daaman pe aa gira Ek aaNsu mere zabt ki tauheen kar gaya... Nm |
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2nd July 2009, 04:41 PM
Some of us from shayri met for the first time personally in delhi in November 2004...It was start of a very strong emotional bond with many of the members here... Meena didi, Paras, Anu bhai (Mast), Akshat (Bedil_Musafir), Kshitiz, Sakhi, Chaand bhai, Manoj bhai, Praveen ji.... Do din me chand ghanton ko mile thhe hum log par naa jaane jab jaane ki baari aayi to mann itna bhaari kyun ho raha thha....Kshitiz ki woh awaaz "Sandhya sawere nadiya teere, main karta raha intezaar... aaya naa mera yaaar...." aaj bhi zehan me jyon ke tyon hai...
I was particularly impressed with Chaand bhai Manoj Kureel's writings at that time... Chaand bhai ke kucch aashaar: Sunne sunaane ki khaatir o Oonamika tera is jahaan me fasaana hi nahin Woh mere raam ko raam uncle kehke bulaati thii and this one is my fav of Chaand bhai: 'Ey Khuda' ho sake to mera ek kaam kar Bas 'Do lakeereiN' ka hi her-fer bana de, Ek meri is hatheli per uski mohobbat likhde Or uski hatheli se koi or…Gunjaaish hi mita de. Manoj bhai was in the same professional domain as me... Unki ek post Khamosh raatein ne mujhe behad impress kiya.... Us ghazal me jo bayaani thhi, manoj bhai ki banaayi huwii tasviir ki aankhon me bhi wahhii khaamoshi nazar aati thhi... I met Rohin,(Rohin) who is one of my best friends from Shayri. Shayad hi zindagi ka koi aisa pehlu hoga jo maine usse share naa kiya ho... We've seen a lot of changes in life together.... Ek kamaal ka coincidence tab huwa thha jab Rohin aur maine duniya ke do alag hisson me baith kar alaga time par ek kalaam likha aur woh kaafi hadd tak ek jaisa thha... I met Priya(s)... Chaahat123 and LuvPriya... Both of them are sweet sisters... Inme se ek rooth gayi hai mujhse aur ab baat nahin hoti... but it hurts a lot to have hurt a wonderful person like her... Then I met a person, who brought fragrance of first love into my life... She made me realize what love is and how much can a person love someone.... I have some very special memories of that association and they'll always remain close to my heart...I always wish her to be happy.... Akshat(BEdil Musafir).. I call him my Baniya bhai... We've spent some wonderful time together... He's one person who's got a very pure heart... His friendship is really precious to me... Haan bass ek baat hai inke maasoom chehre ke peechhe shaitaani bhi bahut hai... yeh kisi ko aisa phasaate hain ke doosra inpe shak bhi naa kare... aur promises kabhi poore nahin karte... Kshitiz(Kshitiz) - Kshitiz, yeh janaab jisse milte hain uska mann moh lete hain... Inki awaaz... inka andaaz... sab kucch niraala hai... Inki shayri ka to main humesha se hi kaayal raha hoon... Inko dekhkar aap ek baar ko bhi nahin keh sakte ke yeh itnii gehrii shayri likh sakte hain... Kshitiz se milna hota rehta hai... yeh lucknow rehte hain jahaan mere maama bhi hain aur inka bhi Delhi aana hota rehta hai Kshitiz ke jo aashaar mere zehan me humesha rehte hain: Milne k liye humse jis roz vo ayenge, Hum apne gharonde ko phuloN se sajaenge. GhazloN ka hunar apni aakhoN ko sikhayenge, Royenge bahut lekin aasuN naa bahayenge Mujhe aajtak yaad hai jab Kshitiz pehli baar mere ghar rehne aaya thha... to kis tarah jahaan sheesha dikhta whain baala banaata thha... chaahe woh shessha bus ki khidki ka kyun naa ho... Aman Bhai(Aman) - Chulbule Sardaar ji... Inse pehli mulakaat tab huwi jab yeh ghar rehne aaye... Jitna kareeb se inko jaana utna aur pasand kiya inko... Shararati, chulbule par humesha ek steady dimaag sir pe... he is a winderful wonderful friend.... Jasleen(Jasleen aka Ruhani) - Jasleen ke saath suruaat me bahut khatpat huii... we just didn;t connect to start with... Dheere dheere jab ek doosre ko jaana to ek bahut pyaari dosti ki shuruaat huii... met her in Delhi once along with her son Vaibhav... Komal(Komal) - Another very dear friend.... She is also from the same profession as me so we always connected very well... Shuru se hi acchi dosti rahi hum donon ki... Specially liked her hindi translated Gujju wirtings... Always a fan of her beautiful illustrations and lovely verses... We met in Mumbai and had a great time... I still remember her illustration for rohin's novel on which my poetry was written "Dosti ki shyaahi se kalam dil ki yun sajaayi hai". Shailley(Shalini) - Judwa... yup... Shailley and me share the same date of birth...even the year is the same... I always used to tell her that you are my younger sister who got lost in a kumb ka mela... Is par woh boli thhi... tum kyun nahin khoye ho sakte to I would say... Meri shakal meri mom se milti hai... Our lives have been similar is lots of ways... infact both of us got married in the same month, same year just 2 days apart . We've met a couple of times in Delhi.Shalini(Anjaani_Awaaz) - Another wonderful friend of mine... Sahi maynon me nothing special about this association... its just plain friendship... Ladhe bhi jhagde bhi.. masti bhi kii saath me... We've met a lot as she used to work in Delhi only... Also met her husband Satish who is a wonderful wonderful guy... Shalini se to bahut accha hai Pallavi(Pallavi_here) - Mysterious friend... She would keep laughing and laughing and laughing and suddenly disappear... I could not relayy understand her ever... Anil ji (Maasoom Shayar) - Jab pehli baar inse mila to mujhe laga ek 40+ ka aadmi apna id maasoom shayar kaise rakh sakta hai... but jaise jaise inko jaana aur pehchaana....mujhe yakeen ho gaya ke inka id "Maasoom Shayar" ke siva kucch ho hi nahin sakta... He has a child like innocence about him... he's a purest of heart... I wish I could borrow some simplicity of him... His wife... Bhaabi is also an equally beautiful person and is always there with Anil ji... Inse mulakaat hoti hi rehti hai... jab mann karta hai..milne chala jaata hoon Mushi Bhai(Musharraf Hussain) - Mushi bhi ko jab bhi padha to unke liye dil me izzat aur badh gayi... itni badhi hasti ko apni post par khud ko appreciate karta dekh bahut hi acha lagta thha... Mushi bhai ki recorded voice aaj bhi mere paas stored hai... If one wanna learn dignity learn from him, if you wanna learn humility, learn from him... Jitni mohabbat inke mann me sab ke liye hai uski koi saani nahin hai... Talib Ji (talib) Always adored him for his poetry... sabse khoobsoorat inke aashaaron me se "Shareek-e-hayaat" lagti hai mujhe, jo ke inhone humaari bhaabi jaan ko dedicate ki thhi... Talib bhai ki shaadi ki post "Chale taalib doolha banne" pe poori shayri gang ne bahut masti aur bhaut dhamaal kiya thha... Have not intercated much with him as a person but always found him very comfortable to speak to... Mayank Bhai(Mayank aka Moderator ) Mayank bhai ki shayri in dino se pasand hai jab yeh doosre id se likha karte thhe... Mayank bhai se dosti aur gehri ho gayi jab woh delhi aaye aur Bhaabi aur prince se milne ka mauka mila... Umar me zyada fark nahin hai... fir bhi mann me inke liye bahut respect aur pyaar hai... Ek samay pe site chhodne ka mann huwa thha bass Mayank bhai ki wajah se main yahaan raha....Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 04:56 PM
Pari - Pari and I share a very very strong bond... though we've never met... she's one of the bestest friends of mine... I call her My saggitarious friend.. We used to fight so much on SDC, had a great time... then madam became mom of my niece Swar and now my nephew too just 6 months back... I felt so emotional when Swar was born and wrote a poem "Mere ghar aayi ek nanhi pari"....
Garima - My mad young sister... Garima is a sweet little doll, she has handled so many responsibilities at such a young age that I always admire her... I can't forget those days when someone needed reiki treatment and I would call Garima up and she would be at work instantly... Along with her I got 2 sisters Mahima and Juhi and a naughty young brother Gaurav. Sabse close mee dil ke woh din hai... jab Garima ne mujhe phone kiya aur phoot phoot ke royi thhi... I really felt very close to her that day.... Mandy (Mandeep) - She's also one of very good friends I've found here... I've seen this girl mature so much... She's always been there for me in strife or in happiness... Mandy didi tusi great ho! Mausam(Mausam) - She's a freind who just fights with me... Inhone kisi naa kisi baat pe mujhse ladhaai karni hi hai I always use to tease her and she would say tumhaari shaadi hogi to bataoongi... She's a sweet friend and I share a lots of good memories with her....Karthik - Sweet young boy with amazing writing talent... The english verses he write were just awesome... he's always been a great supporter and has been there with me though happiness and through strife... Shraddha (shrddh) - Another very strong emotional bonding... Jab bhi mulakaat huwi dil se mile... she's always made me feel like her real younger bother... The list of wonderful people I've found on SDC is endless... I've learned so much from each one of them that I can't express it in words... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 05:08 PM
Shayri likhne ki shuruaat huwi thhi post "Pehli koshsish"(http://www.shayri.com/forums/showthr...=pehli+koshish) se around 2005 me...isse pehle zindagi me ek poem bhi khud se nahin likhi thi... Meena Didi, Akshat wagairah ke bahut force karne par likhne ki koshsih ki thhi... aap logon ne itna support, itna encouragement diya ke bass uske baad kalam ruki hi nahin....Aaj bhi jab woh post padhta hoon... chehre pe muskaan khud aa jaati hai...
Main kabhi bhi shayri likhne ke liye nahin likhta... main jo likhta hoon woh mere mann ke ehsaas hote hain... Koshish karta hoon thhoda rhyme banaa paaoon...bahut zyada technicalities me padhne ki kabhi koshish nahin ki... Ek zamaane me urdu zabaan seekhne ki dhun huwii thhi... woh bhi beech me reh gayi... Main apne aap ko shaayar nahin kehta... Mujhe bass apni baat lafzon me dhaalna pasand hai... haan woh kaanon ko sunkar acchi lage so thhodi bahut rhyming... varna techniques ki knowledge naa mujhe hai naa hi koshish hai acquire karne ki.... Zainy... main koshish karoonga sab dobara post karne ki... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 06:40 PM
I've spent some memorable moments at this site or with the people of this site...Sharing some photographs with you:
Some Memories (Link to Photos) The first time I met Meena didi was special... Never felt it was the first time... the day she reached Mumbai... we both had the same song in mind... Tera mujhse hai pehle ka naata koi, yun hi nahin dil lubhaata koi... In 2006, when Paras came to Delhi and we met at Delhi Darbaar, I drooped her home on my bike. It felt so great to have SDC's icon sit on my bike. I even had Meena didi sit on my bike. So 2 SDC's greats rode my bike. I think I should put my bike on auction here Meeting Mayank bhai and his family was also special. Prince was so friendly as if he knew us for ages. There were 3 days when Kshitiz, Aman bhai, Akshat and Amit stayed at my house. We had a blast of a time...and then we all went to Mumbai to spend a week with Meena di. Paras, Kshitiz, Dheer, Anil ji, Shalini, and her hubby dancing crazy at my wedding... I can just keep on writing about the fond memories at SDC, the list is endless... There was one incident which really hurt me...Once a mod here said to me "Don't expect undue favours being a moderator"... These words did pinch a lot.... Khair... yehi zindagi hai... Some fond memories, some painful ones... But till the time fond memories are more, life is good Will update those photos Zainy. Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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2nd July 2009, 06:57 PM
Namaskaar Pulkit Ji
Kaise hain aap ? Aapka likha sab kuch parha aur parhkar bahaut accha laga. Parivaar aur Doston ke prati aapka pyaar aur sammaan dekhkar tow bahaut juada khushi mili hai. Filhaal tow ek sawaal hee hai mere paas: Kya aap isi jeevan ko dobaara jeena chaahenge?....yadi haan tow iski koi khaas wajah. aabhaar aapka vipin 
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Interview ke liye tumhara suwagat hai -
2nd July 2009, 07:42 PM
Dear Pulkit......tumhe interview ke katghare mein dekh kar dil pulkit ho utha
aur SDC par bane rishto.n ka khulasa jis tarah aapne kiya hai, mujhe bahut accha laga, kyuNki mujhe kisi member ne kaha tha abhi kuch hi din phele ki aap bekaar mein SDC ko pariwaar pariwaar kahti hain yeh ek dhokha hai....main dil se chahti hoon ki kaash woh memmber aapka likha hua jaroor padey.....dil ko behad khushi hue tumhara likha padkar, muje naaz hai apni SDC par aur aap jaise members par jo sdc ke etne kareeb hai Pulkit abhi to koi sawaal nahi lekar aaye main, abhi to bas padne aaye hoon tumhare bare mein.....sawaal baad meiN kush raho pyar aur duao.n ke saath diii .....Sunita Thakur..... यह कह कर मेरा दुश्मन मुझे हँसते हुए छोड़ गया ....के तेरे अपने ही बहुत हैं तुझे रुलाने के लिए... 
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2nd July 2009, 09:04 PM
Pulkit bhaiya:
namaste! sab se pehle tou maiN Shayri Parivaar ke kaThGhare meiN aapkaa tah-e-dil se sawaagat kartaa huuN.. bahot hi KhuShii hu'ii aapke baare meiN itnaa kuch jaan kar aur Shayri Parivaar ke pooraane sadasoN ke baare meiN jaan K...! KhuSh raheN.. apnaa Khayaal raKheN duaaoN ke saath ijaazat aapka ~ Dhaval |
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3rd July 2009, 06:47 AM
Pulkit bhaiya ...
U are most Welcome here!!! Kaise ho? ( yeh sawal poochna zaroori hai) Im sure u must b tired (dont think so)after writing so much ...lolz...jk Zainy jii mein aapki bahut bahut shukarguzar hu aapne Pulkit ji ka interview liye... Its gonna b awesome one .. he is my fav on this site aur he the 1st person whom I met here...Kal jab yahan aayii thi (site) I thought of asking u kuch sweet sweet sawal .. lekin phir soocha aachii lambhi list bana lu .. lekin ab tumharii reply dekh kar Im surpirsed..with happiness !!! Yakeen nahi hain aap sab ko itna yaad rakhte ho .... yeh bahut aachi baat hai Im sure every1 shud be proud to have a wonderful person like u in their life so am I .. Mujhe yaad hai jab mein es site pe aayii thii n u have helped me always aur tumhe pata hai ek tum hi they jisne mujhe encourage kiya kuch likhne ke liye ...ALL I wud say is u r a very wonderful person A man with golden heart!!ek song mann mein aaya ... Phoolon Ka Taaron Ka Sabka Kehna Hai Ek Hazaron Mein Pulkit Bhaiya Hai Sari Umar Hame Sang Rehna Hai Tumne toh woh din yaad dila diye It used to so fun...miss all that ... beautiful memoriesAur bas dua kartii hu aapko duniya bhar ki khushiya mile .... pyaar mile ,.... aur hamesha muskurtae raho ... aur yu hi humara saatha baana rahe.. last baar India aayii tumse mil na saakii .. lekin es baar esa nahi hoga ... milteye hai jaldi hii milti hu kuch( 1 ..2..3...4...5....6..7..8..9..100 )sawalon ke saath take a good care lots of love n wishes ur sis mandeep ~ Mandeep Kaur ~ |
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3rd July 2009, 10:25 AM
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Sorry... main likhne me itna magan ho gaya ke aapko reply dena bhool gaya... fir aapke saath to ghar waali baat hai... Yaar aapse tthoda darr lagta hai... aap seedhe saadhe sawaal to poochhoge nahin aur aake questions ko "No Comments" bhi nahi keh paoonga... Zara chhote bhai pe reham karna Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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3rd July 2009, 11:00 AM
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Main Doston ko aur rishton ko bahut ahemiyat deta hoon... Inke bina zindagi adhoori hai... Accha laga aapko yahaan dekhkar... Bhai... ab aapke sawaal ka jawaab... Bahut si cheezen hain jo maine samay ke saath ikattha ki hain... jaise ke acche dost, knowledge, values, acche aur bure ki parakh... Kucch bahut acchi memories hain... Success hai... Setbacks bhi hain...Bahut struggle bhi ki hai... So ek to main in cheezon ko khona nahin chaahoonga... specially acche dost aur knowledge... kyunki yeh dono hi cheezen pata nahin main fir se ikattha kar paaoon yaa nahin... Ek time aisa thha jab main mehnat karna chaahta tha... mehnat karne ke liye job nahin thhi..... Ek time aisa thha jab main apne feelings share karna chaahta thha... magar sunne waale dost nahin thhe.... Main bure experience bhi khona nahin chaahonga... kyunki they've helped me grow as a aperson...Ab aap bataaiye itni precious cheezen koi kaise khoye... Ek doosra perspectie yeh hai... ke bahut si aisi baatein huwiin zindagi mein jahaan maine apne aap ko bahut helpless mehsoos kiya aur uska malaal aaj bhi rehta hai... Kabhi kabhi mann karta hai ke kaash main vaapis wahaan pahunch kar use badal paata... Kaash kucch different kiya hota... kucch dost jo rooth ke chale gaye... kaash waapis jaakar unhe rok paata. But as I say this, I also believe that "Kaash.... is endless"... Aap kitna bhi kar lo yaa kitna bhi paa lo... "Kaash" ki gunjaaish rehti hi hai... So..... main jaisa hoon...jahaan hoon accha hoon...khush hoon...Main apni zindagi dobara nahin jeena chaahta.... Haan bass kabhi yeh zaroor mann karta hai ke kucch din ke liye dobaara se baccha ban jaaoon aur saari tensions chhodke, kya sahi hai, kya galata hai bhulaake bass jo mann me aaye woh karroon.... Just set myself free.... "Pancchi banoon, udhta firoon mast gagan me... aaj main azaad hoon..." Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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4th July 2009, 01:20 PM
kitna bolte ho tum pulkit....i mean likha hain...........heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee[
] i am sure acchi autobiography likhoge tum.............haan to fir is baat pe kaam shuru kar do......aur prologue..main inspire by mausam likhna..kyunki suggest to maine hi kiya nabas sab ke liye accha accha likha hain ..aur meri impression ladaku banadi. ...sach to yeh hain ki tum aur aman hi mujhse ladte thesach woh din bahut acchhe the..........aur sanjj tha tab yaha ka mahol hi aur tha the year 2004...............filhal to ques nahin ahin mere pass..par jald hi aungi....question ke saath tab tak tum likhte rahomausam Jaane kya samjhi main useN Faasla nazar aaya....Kuch kadmon ke saath se |
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4th July 2009, 02:54 PM
Pulkit bhaii, yuu.n to aap ke baare me.n bohat kuchh jaan,ta huu.n, phir bhii aap ke baare me.n, aur aap ke dosto.n ke baare.n me.n jaan kar behad behad achchha lagaa.. aap ke apne dil ke ehsaas bayaa.n karne ka andaaz bhi behad khuub hai... agar aap ko 'a man with a golden heart' kahaa jaaye to Ghalat nahii.n hogaa.. waade ke mutaabq kuchh sawaalo.n ke saath haazir huu.n. shayri.com ke puraane dosto.n kii tasveere.n dekh kar behad achchah laga, aur dil main phir se ek baar khayaal aayaa ki kaash! mai.n bhiii aap sab ke saath hota aap ke interview me.n abhii ek hii sawaal puuchh rahaa huu.n, ummeed hai ki aap iimaandaarii ke saath is ka jawaab de.nge... 1)kya aap kabhiii online pyaar ke shikaar huye hai.n ? mera kahane ka matlab hai ki kisii aisi laDki se pyaar hona hai,jis ko aap ne (internet duniya ke sites , misaal ke taur par shayri.com ko hi le leejiye) kisii bhii site ke zariye se jaana.n ho.. Agar haa.n to yeh safar kis tarah beeta aap ka, aur aap ko kya lagta hai ki aise pyaar ka madhyaantar aur ant kya hota hai aur kaise hota hai... aur phir sab se aham baat, ki kyaa aisa pyaar ek baar anjaam tak( route diversion) pahunchne ke baad dilo.n se woh hamesha ke liye miT jaata hai....? abhee ke liye itnaa hee...... Mayank |
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5th July 2009, 01:03 PM
Mujhse bhi mile the shayad .. aur ek lamba arsa humne sath maiN bitaya hai.. aur jab sab delhi aapke ghar aapse milne aaye the... us mulakaat maiN bhi bohat bada hissa tha... even in mumbai .. kyuNki mumbai se to hum sath hi aaye the na.. Bhai galtiyan sabse hoti hai .. par waqt unhe maaf karne ko hi kehta hai .. main nahi jaanta maine kya galat kiya hai ...but bohat waqt jaa chuka hai .. mujhe khushi hogi aap us waqt ko yaad karke khush hoN .. jisme maiN bhi aham tha kahiN... i dont know wht happen to u.. neways maiN yahan koi behas ya mahol ko kharaab karne nahi aaya ... aap bas khush raho mast raho .. ye dua rahegi.. aur ho sake to kam se kam ab reply karna ...
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6th July 2009, 01:46 PM
Dear Mandy,
Yaar... Shayri se judhi to itni baaten hain ke aise 10 pages aur likh sakta hoon main... you are a special friend... so always be around... I am not a man with a Golden heart... I have a normal heart but all you friends have a added a glitter of gold to it... Luv yaa... tc.. ============================================= Sunita Di, Aap us shaks ko mujhse milvaaiyega... Main use batoonga ke yeh parivaar parivaar kyun hai aur hum kaise judhe hain isse... Magar ek baat yeh bhi hai ke ab vaisa mahaaul dikhta nahin hai... woh jazbaat zaahir nahin hote... Par SDC ek parivaar hai aur hopefully humesha rahega.... ============================================ Dear Dhaval, Bhai, in rishton se hi main main hoon... Agar meri zindagi se yeh rishte mit jaayen to shaayad ek kora kaagaz nazar aayega tumhe... Humesha saath dene ke liye shukriya... yeh saath banaaye rakhna... ============================================ Dear Mausam, Yaar tum ladhaaku to ho hi... abhi bhi ladhi hi rahi ho But that's the fun... yeh Shayri-E-Dard me dard hi dard reh jaayega otherwise... will not wait for your question... hopefully the thread goes down by then... Yaar... Agar main autobigraphy bhi likhoonga naa to woh bhi mere baare me kam, mujhse judhe logon aur unse mere rishton ke baare me hogi... Ek line kahoonga... "Mujhme mera kucch nahin yaara, Acchi buri sab niyaamaten hain terii..." ============================================ Kunal, Tumne sahi kaha ke yeh sahi jagah nahin hai... Kabhi kahin aur, kisi aur din is baare me baate karenge... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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6th July 2009, 02:22 PM
Maynak bhai,
Mujhe pata thha... tum seedha sawaal nahin laaoge... ek to pehle hi sawaal aisa poccha jispe main "no comments" kehna chaahoon magar tumhe nahin keh sakta aur dossra kehte ho imaandaari se bhi jawaab doon.... sahi hai... Khair aapne poocha hai to sach sach jawaab doonga.... Bhai aap agar kehte ho ke main "Online pyaar ka shikaar huwa hoon" to mera jawaab naa hoga...main kabhi "shikaar" nahin huwa... Haan...I've been into a relationship with a person whom I've never met personally... Online chat hoti thhi aur Phone pe baat hoti thhi... Main yeh nahin keh sakta ke woh sahi thha, galat thha magar haan poori tarah sensible nahin thha...Baat 4-5 saal pehle ki hai... Us samay tak aisi feelings ka kabhi part nahin banaa thha isilye shaayad us relationship me maine enter kiya... bina soche ke yeh kitna sensible decision hai... kitne chances hain is rishte ko door tak le jaane ke... We started as friends and shared a lot of things together... Slowly and Gradually We both developed feelings for each other... I never took these feelings seiosuly becoz (a The girl was much more qualified than me and b) she was not from India... Circumstances kucch aise huwe ke usne apne feelings express kiye and I just could not say 'No'. I never believed in short term relationships and always had a desire to take this relationship a long distance... but that was too optimisitic and juvenile... Safar me bahut acche moments bhi thhe aur bahut zyaada painful bhi... Shuruaat me sab bahut suhaana lagta thha... magar dheere dheere jab reality check hone laga tab bahut dard bhi huwa... Main us relationship ko regret nahin karta... magar haan ek samay aisa thha ke jab mujhe shaayad yakeen ho gaya thha ke is rishte ka koi futue nahin... but for her happiness... I continued with it... jiski wajah se baad me sab bhool paana bahut mushkil thha... Today when I think, sensible hota hai ke main usi time quit kar leta.. But as one says "Life is to Move on".. So I did move on and am happy. Bhai... practically boloon to mujhe lagta hai aap sirf online kisi se milkar kisi ko judge nahin kar sakte becoz online chatting is a confined, closed environment... Asal duniya me mahaul alag hote hain, nazariya alag hota hai... Baaki arranged marriage me ek baar milkar bhi aap kuch khaas nahin pata kar sakte... Jahaan tak feelings mitne ka sawaal hai... Mera maanna hai ke love is just an emotion you develop for some person... you may love one person for x quality of his/hers and another for some other quality... Sabka mujhe pata nahin... Mere mann me unke liye ab strong emotional bond nahin hai...haan unka buraa ho aise feelings mere mann me kabhi nahin aaye... I hope maine honestly aapko jawaab de diya hai... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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7th July 2009, 08:01 AM
Dear Pulkit ...
waise toh main jaantii hu tumhe frm the day I came to shayri.com fir bhi hmm...now its my turn with kuch sawal aur I hope aapko pareshaan nahi karenge .. 1) zindagii mein hum kabhie aache / aur kabhie sab tarah ke logon se milte hain ... agar koi humara dil dukhaye .. toh kya kahege ... insaan bura hota hai yeh fir waqt bura hota hai ? expalin 2)aapka sapna( dream ) kya hai? 3)har insaan ko aapna dard khud ka dard bada lagta hai .. I think thats natural until one realise that... aur aapki life esa kisi aur ke saath bura hua ho aur aapko bahut bura laga ho jo abhi tak aur bhul nahi paayege? 4)waise kaun thi woh phelii ladkii jisko flirt kiya tha? ...aur kitno ko kiya that ... n the countdown beginz.. hehhe ( mazak kar rahi hu waise agar agar eska jawab dena chaho to dont mind to knw..lolz)5)behind the success of every man there is a woman... do u agree ? y? well aaj tak ke liye itne hi ... milti hu kuch sawalon ke saath take care aapki mandeep ~ Mandeep Kaur ~ |
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7th July 2009, 01:14 PM
Dear Mandy let me try and answer your googlies...
1) zindagii mein hum kabhie aache / aur kabhie sab tarah ke logon se milte hain ... agar koi humara dil dukhaye .. toh kya kahege ... insaan bura hota hai yeh fir waqt bura hota hai ? expalin I guess... I would say circumstances thheek nahin thhe... yaa meri judgement galat thhi us bande ke liye... 2)aapka sapna( dream ) kya hai? As such koi dream nahin hai... Want to lead a peaceful life, with all the friends and family alongside me always... Bina tension ki simple life...Zyada paisa kamaane ki khwaahish nahin hai... bass itna ho ke ek basic standard maintain kiya jaa sake... 3)har insaan ko aapna dard khud ka dard bada lagta hai .. I think thats natural until one realise that... aur aapki life esa kisi aur ke saath bura hua ho aur aapko bahut bura laga ho jo abhi tak aur bhul nahi paayege? Hmmm... aise bahut se instances hain... mujhe kisi ki wajah se dard ho yaa kisi ko meri wajah se...main dono hi nahin bhool paata... 4)waise kaun thi woh phelii ladkii jisko flirt kiya tha? ...aur kitno ko kiya that ... n the countdown beginz.. hehhe ( mazak kar rahi hu waise agar agar eska jawab dena chaho to dont mind to knw..lolz)Yaar... flirt karne ki kalaa as such mujhme hai nahin... haan try zaroor kiya ek do baar but failed... Fi zyada try nahin kiya..vaise hi I believe in long term relationships... vaise bhi GFs afford karna aasaan hai kya? 5)behind the success of every man there is a woman... do u agree ? y? Lol... naa kaha to biwi maaregi.. hehe... Well I don't believe in any such philosophy...Har insaan apni mehnat se aage badhta hai... haan he needs emotional support... which he may get from a man also... In my case, I attribute all my success to my mom... If it wasn't for her resolve and determination and the values she's given me... I would've been nothing... So... I hope I've answered all your googlies honestly... take care Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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8th July 2009, 06:52 PM
muje maloom hi na chala aur woh humse rooth gaye
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11th July 2009, 09:21 PM
bade bhaiya... mujhe puchhana hai ki aapki koi aisi dili khwahish jo abtak puri nahi huii hai.. par aapke liye uska pura hona bahoot jyaada maayne rakhta ho.
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12th July 2009, 04:03 PM
Pulkit bhaii, chaliye, maaana ki aap online pyaar ke 'Shikaar' nahii huye hai.n, par yeh to aap bhi maan,te hai.n is is online pyaar ke makkadjaal me.n kabhi buri tarah fas gaye the..  sach kahuu.n to mujhe aap ka jawaab mujhe behad achcha laga, aur yeh baat bhii zaahir hai ki ek had tak aap ne kaafi iimaandaari barti hai jawaab dene me.n.. shukriya jawaab dene ke liye aur mujhe itni izzat dene ke liye..ab soch raha huu.n ki, agla sawaal kyaa karuu.n........................ ................................ ................................ ............................................ kuchh duets aap logo.n ne zaruur likhe honge, wohi sunaa deejiye............   mayank |
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Pulkit miyaaN namaste aaj kayi mahiinoN baad maine SDC par kuch padhaa aur woh the aapke is interview meiN diye gaye dilchaspii bharee jawaab bhai muaafi maaNg'ne ki zaroorat qata'ii nahiiN hai, samajhiiye she'r aapka hi hai albatta muaafi mujh ahmak ko maaNg'ni chahiye jo aapki shaadi par haaziiri na de paaya, ummiid hai aap ne muaaf kar diya hogaba-har-haal this is not the reason why i'm submitting this. Some of your words in your other replies in this very post has triggered something inside me. It's about what you said in replying to Mayank's question. Before i go any further i would greatly appreciate if you could take my following words just as an outcry of my pain and feelings rather a personal attack on yourself, however if any of it does offend you please do excuse me as i can behave like a lose screw sometimes and if it is any comforting i'm a bit drunk as usual even now Pulkit bhai love knows NOTHING but love. Things like "sensible decisions" DO NOT count when it comes to loving someone. I can however understand where you are coming from and it is not your fault because the definition of love has changed altogether in today's world. Though it is not my interview still let me tell you something very personal about myself and it's the first time i'm saying something like on a public forum which i might regret posting when i come to my senses in the morning, hell with it for now I have spent my entire life loving somebody i have never met in person though we lived in the same town i saw her everyday but never spoke to her, closest i ever got to her was "5 Feet". There were no mobile phones in those days and probably so few landline phones in the entire town that you could count on fingers. Means of communication was extremely limited yet our love grew stronger day after day. We both knew we would never be together but as i said love knows nothing but love and we carried on until that one fateful day when all hell broke lose.It has been 17 long years and there has not been a single day when i dont think about her. Each year i celebrate the day i saw her first and mourn the day i saw her last. Now what you say about "moving on" is alien to love as well, if i had moved on in a way sensibility would have liked i can't begin to describe how much i would have missed. Coz of this undescribeable pain i'm able to understand life better, i appreciate little happiness a long way and it has made me a way better man than i could ever be if i was without it. Love is never about what you get it's all about what and how much you can give. It's unfortunate that its becoming rare day by day when both people think about love the same way which is "to give" and that's where the problem is, has always been but is getting worse now in our modern world. This is precisely the reason why i never spoke about my feelings, even while reading this post i'm absolutely sure that 9 out of 10 people would think of me as a loser, idiot or soemthing equivalent.Typical. Given the time i have i've stopped worrying about it now. Anyways it was absolutely refreshing reading all you wrote about members of SDC and your relationships with them. I'm quite opposite to you, a true introvert, i envy you even though i could never let that many people into my life at any time.lol Thanks for sharing your experiences, god knows when i'll be addressing you next if i ever will so i'm wishing you a happy married life. May god bless all of you and keep spreading love. rab raakha maikash is tarhe teri yaad meiN har shaam dhaley hai goyaa koyi nagin si kalejey pe chaley hai maikash ............................... |
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14th July 2009, 09:41 AM
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Bouncer maara hai tumne... let me try n answer it... Vaise to meri khwaahishon ki list bahut badhi nahin hai aur oopar waale ne samay par saath bhi diya hai... Meri mom ne humen badha karne me bahut struggle kiya hai... she has gone through a lot in her life... Main bass yeh chaahta hoon ke woh bass ab koi tensions naa len... but woh ho nahin paata... Filhaal to yehi khwaahish sabse zyada maayne rakhti hai.... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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14th July 2009, 09:44 AM
Ama Mayank bhai,
Aap jitne shareef lagte ho utne ho nahin... yeh baat to main pehle se jaanta thha... isliye kaha thha... chhote bhai pe reham karna... Aur ek hadd tak imaandaari ka kya matlab hai... maine 100% honesty se jawaab diya hai haan jitna detailed aap chaahte honge utna nahin diya Unke saath waale duets chhodo... Lets live in present aapke saath ek duet gaane ki tamanna hai... aap shuru karna..main use aage badhaoonga... hehe... take care... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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14th July 2009, 02:25 PM
Maikash bhai,
Main kya kahoon mujhe kitna accha lag raha hai aapko yahaan dekh... Aaj tak hum jis maikash se ru-ba-ru huwe usne apne andar ki soft feelings ko kabhi zaahir hone hin nahin diya... aaj aapka woh pehlu dekhaa to bahut accha laga... I loved your response and the fact that you affirmly believe what you feel... I will try to share my thoughts but as you mentioned, there's no personal attack intended... I agree with you on the fact that love is love and there's nothing like a sensible decision... I do not regret any of the moments spent during that relationship but I do believe in the concept of 'Moving On'... May be it's a modern concept... There was a time when I also found it difficult to cope up with the loss...It was painful to say the least... But I could not let so many other people who loved me in a selfless manner be a part of my agony... They deserved all the love they had showered on me... and this is when I realised that I must move on to keep them happy.... Secondly, what would happen if I kept thinking about her... Would she ever comeback?... would things ever be the same again?... If I keep thinking about her and be sad about her, would it help her in any way? No, I think. Why should I mourn hers not being here and not celebrate the company of all those who are...who love me...who care for me and equally deserve the same from me....My Mom, My Sister, My friends, my family... they've all always stood by me in the bad times and good and I wanted to live for them... I wanted to be happy for them...So I did...and today with them, I am happy too... I care a damn about what the world thinks about me... But yes, my family, my friends matter a lot to me...and they give me 1000 more reasons to smile and it's their love that gave me courage to come over it.... I don't say that I've forotten everything... It's just that I don't let my brain go there...I would rather think of the love all these people give to me eveyday... and the love I have for them which is equally pure.... The "moving on" concept usually comes with an understanding that "Love someone, if you don't get her...love someone else and so on...". For me, I moved on to give another direction to my life and love all others who surround me... I felt a certain responsibility towards them as well... Maine shaadi ki... I've brought the other girl to my house to give her all the love and affection she expects from this marriage and It would be very very unethical on my part to keep thinking about someone else when she loves and trusts me so purely... If the same thing happened to me that my Wife loved someone and just takes the marriage as a duty.... what would my feelings be? What if the same happened with my sister that her husband was in love with someone else??? I would have cursed myself foe getting her married to that person and making her life a hell... Har insaan ki soch aaj ki duniya me alag hai... Main yeh bhi maanta hoon ke aajkal 'Unconditional love' ke kisse nahin milenge... but still I believe it's better to move on... Bhai...bahut kucch likh gaya hoon... but yeh meri soch hai... You are envy of me for just one reason... I have thousands to be envy of you... Aap se ek mulaakaat ki tamanna hai dil me, jo bahut kareeb aate aate reh gayi aur aap meri shaadi nahin attend kar paaye... Main 3 baar UK aaya, tab mann me aaya ke ek baar aapko phone karoon par naa jaane kyun kar nahin paaya... Khair... agli baar aaya to aisa nahin hoga...and if you come to India, you will have to meet me for sure... Aap apna bahut acche se khayal rakhiye... Thanks for all the wonderful wishes...thay mean a lot! fir milenge... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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21st July 2009, 03:17 PM
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ek hadd tak iimaandaari ka matlab, ek had tak iimaandaari hee hai.. aur mere saath duets kyun bhaiii, hehehehe.... jis ke saath likhe huye duets sun,ne ki tamanna thii, woh to aap ne puurii ki nahii.n ...... khair! khush raho..... mayank |
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22nd July 2009, 07:03 AM
Dear Pulkit!
kaise ho? tumhara reply padh kar aacha laga .. kya mere Q itne google kind of they ... chalo koi baat nahi ... waise jawab mast they..waise lagta hai aapka interview stuck kiyu hua hai ..I wonder ..yeh kaise ho gaya ..hehehe .. meine soocha tha tumhara interview sab longest hoga .... anyways I will try to ask u few more Q es baar bakii try karugiii .. aur sawal pooch paugii ..so mere sawal ab kuch mast dino ki tarf le chalti hu .. ** aapne bachapan ke baare mein kuch baatye ..aapki edcuation kahan hue .. aap ka bachapan kaisa guzra .. kya aap tab bhi itne sareef they..hehehe ... ur fave subject ..aur kaun sa subject hai jo aapko kabhie nahi pasand tha ..aapka childhood freind kaun hai?ur fav teacher aur kaun thi/tha? ..etc ..aaj ke liye itna hi take care milte hain chotii c break ke baad mandeep ~ Mandeep Kaur ~ |
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22nd July 2009, 12:30 PM
Hi Mandy,
Tumhe aisa kyun laga ke questions common thhe... I found them really interesting... Bachpan... Well I have a joint family so were 6 brothers and sisters (including cousins) living in the same house... so we used to have a lot of fun... koi tyohaar ho, koi occasion ho...our home was flooded with friends and relatives...so it was always very funfilled.... Well... seedha kaho yaa dumb... I was a very shy kid, introvert, used to live in my own world... deen duniya ki zyada khabar nahin thhi... haan responsibilities ka ehsaas thha but wasn't matured enough.... Zyada dost bhi nahin thhe...did not have a big social circle either... It was when I started working that I gained confidence, made good friends, started getting involved in social circles and stuff... and it's been long... I had started working after I passed school... so nearly 11 years... Schooling was from a private school nearby my home named "Happy School", I did my graduation through distance learning (correspondence). Wasn't a brilliant kid... actually interest nahin thha zyada studies me... Just used to study towards end of the year and move to the next standard.... Favourite subject as such koi nahin thha thuogh I liked Sanskrit a lot as it was high scoring (Only subject I got a distinction in ). I didn't like biology as I could never make those complicated diagrams... The teacher would always call my mom and say "You son is a blank child" lol... There was a crafts teacher who was herself 4'11 or 5 in height... she used to call me "Choohe ram". I want to meet her once as now she would not be up to my shoulders even I liked my class 3rd teacher... Mrs. Malhotra... she was a very soft spoken lady and compassionate towards kids.... Childhood me zyada friends thhe nahin... I can name 2 friends who are still in touch and very close to me... Vaibhav and Prafull. Vaibhav used to be my classmate and Prfaull was my neighbour. Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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22nd July 2009, 06:06 PM
Good one...Chalo Koi to mila Pullu Bhai ki kheench taan karne waala................
**(*·.¸(`·.¸ ¸.·´)¸.·*)** *·.¸Paigaam -e- Aman¸.·* **(¸.·´(¸.·* *·.¸)`·.¸)** ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* inhan ankhaaon vicho kadi, tere hanju vaghe si..... aaj ki hoye, jehda ^AMAN^ da lahoo vagda ae...... AMAN RAHI |
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22nd July 2009, 09:38 PM
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AMAN jiii namaskaar aapko sdc par haziri lagwate dekh accha laga....ab aapka aana roz roz ho, hum yehi wish karte haiN. sdc ko apne purane members ka intzaar rehta hai har pal..... aate rahyega....! god bless u .....Sunita Thakur..... यह कह कर मेरा दुश्मन मुझे हँसते हुए छोड़ गया ....के तेरे अपने ही बहुत हैं तुझे रुलाने के लिए...
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26th July 2009, 09:48 AM
Pulkit bhaiya:
namaste! kaise hai.n aap? kuch sawaal maiN bhee kar luuN aapse.. >> School Life meiN aapne ko'ii aisii mastii ki haii jiss wajah se bahot DaaNT paRii ho apne Teacher se ya Ghar waaloN se ?? >> Shayri Parivaar se juRne waale naye sadasyoN ko aap kyaa kehnaa chaaheNge? >> "Dosti" kuch lafz aapki aur se.. >> aapkaa Shayri Parivaar meiN sab se yaadgaar pal kaunsaa rahaa wo jaannaa chaahuNgaa! apnaa Khayaal raKheN... KhuSh raheN duaaoN ke saath ijaazat aapka ~ Dhaval |
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29th July 2009, 05:07 PM
Hi Dhaval,
Koshish karta hoon jawaab dene ki... Yaar... daant to padhti hi rehti thhi dono se hi kisi na kisi baat pe... aisa koi khaas instance mujhe sach me yaad nahin... haan ek baar english ke exam me Business Studies revise karke gyaa thha tab pata lagne par mom ne bahut daanta thha... haan magar maine exam clear kar liya thha Shayri pariwaar se judhne waalon se main yeh kehnaa chaahoonga ke yahaan sirf shayri hi nahin hai seekhne ko balki aapko aise log milenge jo aapko ek behtar insaan banne me madad karenge... Bahut se aise log hain yahaan jinme alag alag qualities hain... sab se 5-10% bhi grasp kar paaye to bahut kucch seekh jaayenge.... maine to bahut kucch seekha hai (specially other than shayri) Dosti ke khaas maayne hain mere mann me... main apne doston ko bahut value karta hoon kyunki dost hi hain jinse aap apne dil ki baat bina soche keh sakte ho aur unse sahi raaiy ki ummeed bhi kar sakte ho... Yaar... ek nahin kaii yaadgaar pal hain... Maine jab pehli baar likhne ki koshsih ki thi..tab aise aise logon ne encourage kiya jinko main bahut zyada respect deta hoon aur kabhi socha nahin thha ke woh mera likha saraahenge.... Magar sabse zyada yaadgaar shayri ke members se Delhi me 2005 me hui pehli mulaakaat hi hai... Thanks for bringing back some lovely memories... bye... take care... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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29th July 2009, 05:17 PM
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Amaa Mayank bhai, Mod hone ka sahi use karte ho tum... ek line ka reply padhkar main to khush ho gaya thha Khair aapke sawaalon ka jawaab: Mujhe apni simplicity pasand hai... Main koshish karta hoon ke cheezon ka positve side dekhoon taaki himmat bandhi rahe aage badhne ki... Mujhe apni softness pasand nahin hai... Aaj kal duniya itni diplomatic ho chuki hai ke mujhe lagta hai ke log faayda uthhane ki har pal koshish karte hain... Aise me agar aap kisi ke taraf lenient ho to woh palat ke aapko giraane ka mauka nahin chhodta... Although I want to retain the simplicity, but I find it very hard in the current scenario and have lost a lot of it in past few years... Lagta hai is baar "Pulkit", kismat teri bhi rang laayii hai |
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30th July 2009, 02:16 PM
Pulkit,
Interview padh kar bahut acha laga Regards Rohin |
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30th July 2009, 05:46 PM
Mera Naam Gaurav hain wo to pata hi hoga. mere teen khaas dost hain Sumit,Rishi,Munna. Ek langot yaar Ronak. muje shanti se rahena jyada pasand he.muje chilla chilli wali jagah per rahena pasand nahi hain.jaise mumbai... per kismat ne muje majbur ker kiya hain ki ab muje mumbai jaisi jagah per job karne ka saubhagya prapta hua hain... durbhagya bol nai sakta kyoki ab wo mera palanhar hain.....
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