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30th June 2010, 01:17 PM
Aap sabko namaskaar
Do topics parr itni achhi aur healthy discussion dekhkar aur aap sabka itna achha responce dekhkar 'ekta kapoor' ki tarah ek aur episode jodne ja raha hu discussion k liye
Topic hai 'laddoo' ji haan.... halwaai wala nahi... Shadi ka laddooo
To khwateen -o- hazraat topic ye hai k love marriage is better or arrange marriage
aap sabka swagat hai is mudde par dil khol k discussion keejiye
Aur haan ... Jo log already 'diabtic' ( shadishuda ) hain... Unke vichaaro ko comparitively zyada consider kiya jayega
Discussion healthy ho aur kisi bhi shadishuda ki directly mazak na banayi jaaye... Is baat ka vishesh dhyaan rakhe aap sab ...
To pehle kaun aa raha hai ???
Aur haan...most imp. Thing .... Apna reply dene se pehle ye zaruur bataiye k aap kunware ho ya shadishuda ...
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 02:24 PM
katil saheb...pehle to apko mubarkbaad is topic ko chun.ne ke liye mujhe lagta hai sharab ke baat isse accha koi topic ho hi nahi sakta tha nasha utarne ke liye....
chaliye to aaj sabhi ko apne bare mein ek raaj ki baat bata hi deta hoon ke main abhi tak kuNwara hoon aur love marriage(inter religious marriage) karne ke bahut kareeb hoon
love marriage aur arranged marriage mein mujhe waise to kahne ko bahut kuch hai....jaise
1. arranged marriage mein jayadatar dono parivaar ke logoN ka aashirwad aur duaiN sath hoti hain...love marriage mein aisa hone ke assar kaam hi nazar aate hain...
2. arranged marriage mein grand welcome hota hai ....love marriage inter caste/inter religious hui to honour killing hoti hai....
3. arranged marriage ke baad agar koi pareshani aa bhi jaye to parivaar sath deta hai kyunki wo bhi us baat se prabhavit hote hain aur sath hi couples bhi koi compromise karne se nahi hichakte....love marriage mein khud se bahut jayada compromise karna mushkil hota hai parivaar ke log bhi jayadatar sath nahi dete...uski wajah hai ke love marriage mein dono ko hi ek dusre se expectations bahut hoti hain aur jahan expectations bahut hoti hain wahan compromise jara mushkil hota hai.....
4. arranged marriage dono ko security provide karti hai aur love marriage freedom....
5. arranged marriage ka theme song... Babul Ki Duaayein Leti Jaa ja tujh ko shukhi sansaar mile....love marriage ka theme song... Dabur ki dawaayein leti jaa ja tujh ko pati beemar mile.....
kahne ko to bahut kuch hai par filhal itna hi......warna wo kaheiNge ke yahan bhi aag laga di jaliM ne.....
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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katil saheb...pehle to apko mubarkbaad is topic ko chun.ne ke liye mujhe lagta hai sharab ke baat isse accha koi topic ho hi nahi sakta tha nasha utarne ke liye....
chaliye to aaj sabhi ko apne bare mein ek raaj ki baat bata hi deta hoon ke main abhi tak kuNwara hoon aur love marriage(inter religious marriage) karne ke bahut kareeb hoon
love marriage aur arranged marriage mein mujhe waise to kahne ko bahut kuch hai....jaise
1. arranged marriage mein jayadatar dono parivaar ke logoN ka aashirwad aur duaiN sath hoti hain...love marriage mein aisa hone ke assar kaam hi nazar aate hain...
2. arranged marriage mein grand welcome hota hai ....love marriage inter caste/inter religious hui to honour killing hoti hai....
3. arranged marriage ke baad agar koi pareshani aa bhi jaye to parivaar sath deta hai kyunki wo bhi us baat se prabhavit hote hain aur sath hi couples bhi koi compromise karne se nahi hichakte....love marriage mein khud se bahut jayada compromise karna mushkil hota hai parivaar ke log bhi jayadatar sath nahi dete...uski wajah hai ke love marriage mein dono ko hi ek dusre se expectations bahut hoti hain aur jahan expectations bahut hoti hain wahan compromise jara mushkil hota hai.....
4. arranged marriage dono ko security provide karti hai aur love marriage freedom....
5. arranged marriage ka theme song...Babul Ki Duaayein Leti Jaa ja tujh ko shukhi sansaar mile....love marriage ka theme song...Dabur ki dawaayein leti jaa ja tujh ko pati beemar mile.....
kahne ko to bahut kuch hai par filhal itna hi......warna wo kaheiNge ke yahan bhi aag laga di jaliM ne.....
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First of all your heartly and warm welcome on this thread
Waaaahhhh janaab
Aapne to sach me he behas k saarey mudde ek ssaath rakh bhi diye aur clear b karr diye
Kuch kehne aur sun'ne ko bacha he nahi
Waise aapko aapki upcoming shadi ki dhero mubarakbaad
Kuch logo k mann me ye sawal b uthhega ki mai shadishuda hu ya kunwara ... To sarkar mai diabtic hu... matlab shadishuda hu ...
Aur arrange marriage karr chuka hu aur wakai me bahut khush bhi hu jaisa ki aap dekh sakte hain
Baaki to secret admirer sahab ne bata he diya hai k arrange marriage k kitne faayde hote hain aur yakeenan ye sau feesdi sahi bhi hai ... Mai experienceholder jo hu...
Aur hamare zidd sahab ki bhi arrange kum love marriage hui thi... Aur is baat se koi bhi anjaan nahi k zidd sahab kitne khushmijaaz aur hansmukh vyakti hain
Now waiting for others's comments
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 02:50 PM
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First of all your heartly and warm welcome on this thread
Waaaahhhh janaab
Aapne to sach me he behas k saarey mudde ek ssaath rakh bhi diye aur clear b karr diye
Kuch kehne aur sun'ne ko bacha he nahi
Waise aapko aapki upcoming shadi ki dhero mubarakbaad
Kuch logo k mann me ye sawal b uthhega ki mai shadishuda hu ya kunwara ... To sarkar mai diabtic hu... matlab shadishuda hu ...
Aur arrange marriage karr chuka hu aur wakai me bahut khush bhi hu jaisa ki aap dekh sakte hain
Baaki to secret admirer sahab ne bata he diya hai k arrange marriage k kitne faayde hote hain aur yakeenan ye sau feesdi sahi bhi hai ... Mai experienceholder jo hu...
Aur hamare zidd sahab ki bhi arrange kum love marriage hui thi... Aur is baat se koi bhi anjaan nahi k zidd sahab kitne khushmijaaz aur hansmukh vyakti hain
Now waiting for others's comments
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secret bhayee ... bahhut sahi kaha ........
aur katil bhayee .... thanx for topic ....
zid bhayee ke baad mere bare mai bhi batao... what u say, meri love marrige hai ya arrange ...
aur mera mijaaz kaisa hai,
topic pe ghar ja ke likhunga intminaan se, shadi-shudaa hun bahut sochna padta hai yar
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30th June 2010, 02:57 PM
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secret bhayee ... bahhut sahi kaha ........
aur katil bhayee .... thanx for topic ....
zid bhayee ke baad mere bare mai bhi batao... what u say, meri love marrige hai ya arrange ...
aur mera mijaaz kaisa hai,
topic pe ghar ja ke likhunga intminaan se, shadi-shudaa hun bahut sochna padta hai yar
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First of all aapka garmjoshi se is thread par swagat hai huzoor
Aur sirr ji... Zidd sahab k baare me isiliye kaha coz unki posts me is baat ka zikr tha jo ki meri nazro ne dekha aur mujhe yaad reh gaya
Aapke baare me jaankari nahi hai huzuur
Waise aapke mood aur aapke vyavhaar ko dekhte hue lagta hai k aapki love marriage hui hai
Ghalat b ho sakta hu coz aapse zyada mukhatib nahi hua hu ...
Baaki aap bataiye
Aur ab bhabiji ki tabiyat kaisi hai , ye bhi bataiyega ...
Take very good care of yourself and herself Vikaas ji
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 03:02 PM
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Waise aapko aapki upcoming shadi ki dhero mubarakbaad
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ji bahhut shukriya.....bas dua kijiye ke jab ishq ki raah chala hoon to manzil bhi jald miljaye...
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secret bhayee ... bahhut sahi kaha ........
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shukriya vikas bhayee...ab dekhte hain ke kiske kaya reply aate hain fir bahas aage badegi....
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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30th June 2010, 03:04 PM
[QUOTE=KATIL SHAYAR;399279]First of all aapka garmjoshi se is thread par swagat hai huzoor
Aur sirr ji... Zidd sahab k baare me isiliye kaha coz unki posts me is baat ka zikr tha jo ki meri nazro ne dekha aur mujhe yaad reh gaya
Aapke baare me jaankari nahi hai huzuur
hmm . ohkkk
Waise aapke mood aur aapke vyavhaar ko dekhte hue lagta hai k aapki love marriage hui hai
ab aisa kyun kaha ye bhi batana cahiye tha na
Ghalat b ho sakta hu coz aapse zyada mukhatib nahi hua hu ...
Baaki aap bataiye
Aur ab bhabiji ki tabiyat kaisi hai , ye bhi bataiyega ...
pahle se araam hai
Take very good care of yourself and herself Vikaas ji
willl.... thanx
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30th June 2010, 03:20 PM
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ji bahhut shukriya.....bas dua kijiye ke jab ishq ki raah chala hoon to manzil bhi jald miljaye...
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Hmmm... Huzoor e wala... Agar ishq kiya hai aur zald he marriage hone wali hai to aise me aapki manzil kya ho sakti hai
Zara is par prakash zaruur daale taaki aapke liye dua karne me aasani ho
Waise hamari duaein aapke saath hamesha hain huzuur
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 03:27 PM
Vikas ji bhabiji k baare me jaankar khushi hui k pehle se aaram hai ...
Waise aapke baare me aisa isiliye kaha k amuuman aadmi signature me wife k naam ka zikr tabhi karta hai jab k usko apni wife se beinteha muhabbat ho...
aur aapki 'aarti bimaar hai' post se saaf dikhaai deta hai k aap apni biwi se kitna pyaar karte hain...
Parr iska matlab ye katai na samjha jaaye ki arrange marriage me itna pyaar nahi hota...
Maine sirf guess kiya hai Vikaas ji k baare me ghalat b ho sakta hu
Vikaas ji ... Ab to bataiye k mera guess sahi hai ya ghalat...
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 05:25 PM
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Hmmm... Huzoor e wala... Agar ishq kiya hai aur zald he marriage hone wali hai to aise me aapki manzil kya ho sakti hai
Zara is par prakash zaruur daale taaki aapke liye dua karne me aasani ho
Waise hamari duaein aapke saath hamesha hain huzuur
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ji baat kuch yuN hai ke...soch raheiN hain is love marriage ko arrange marriage mein tabdeel kar liya jaye...bas issi wajah se ruke hue hain...
aapki duaeiN aur apke sath ke liye dil se dhanyawaad
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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30th June 2010, 06:03 PM
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ji baat kuch yuN hai ke...soch raheiN hain is love marriage ko arrange marriage mein tabdeel kar liya jaye...bas issi wajah se ruke hue hain...
aapki duaeiN aur apke sath ke liye dil se dhanyawaad
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hmmmm...
Huzoor sirf tareeke ko he tabdeel karne ka vichaar hai ya fir ........
Khair... Jo kuch b ho....
mudda ye hai k aap khush rahe
@ all : waise arrange marriage ka ek faayda aur bhi hota hai...
Wo yeh ki shaadi me dono taraf k relatives se mulaqaat ho jati hai aur pata chal jata hai k future me hame kis kis ka saamna karna pad sakta hai
as a 'atithi'
Wo movie hai na ajay devgan ki.. 'atithi kab aaoge'
Nahi to aakhir me pata chala k wo to kisi aur ka he atithi tha
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 06:20 PM
love marriage ka faida ek ye bhi hai ki
court marriage jyada possible hai....
jisse unnessary expense bachata hai aur future me vo paisa kaam aata hai
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30th June 2010, 06:23 PM
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hmmmm...
Huzoor sirf tareeke ko he tabdeel karne ka vichaar hai ya fir ........
Khair... Jo kuch b ho....
mudda ye hai k aap khush rahe
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ji sirf tareeke ke bare mein hi sochne ki himmat hai mujhme aur raha vichar kuch aur tabdeel karne ka to mujhe apni shamat nahi bulwani hai...
waise ek baat hai k aaj kal combined families ka trend nahi raha india mein...aur aaj ki masroofiyat bhari zindagi mein kahan time hai kisi ko kisi ka atithi ban.ne k liye....
but fir bhi kahunga shaadi kaise bhi ho bas chalni chahiye...pyaar se, vishwaas se, aur ek dusre ka pura samMan karte hue...
so sabhi diabetic logoN k liye meri taraf se ek hi dua k aap aur apka parivaar sukhi rahe... sampaNn rahe....
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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aap to aise bol rahe hai jaise koi qurbaani dene jaa rahe hai....
koi bahut bada kaam nahi kar rahe hai aap...shaadi karke.....
shadi hi ek aise cheez hai jo sabki hoti hai....rajaa ho ya bikhmanga
mera ek sher sunata hu......
ye manaa ki suhaag se sindoor ki hai shaan
bismil hue hai ham bhi to apne hi tham se ab
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aap to aise bol rahe hai jaise koi qurbaani dene jaa rahe hai....
koi bahut bada kaam nahi kar rahe hai aap...shaadi karke.....
shadi hi ek aise cheez hai jo sabki hoti hai....rajaa ho ya bikhmanga
mera ek sher sunata hu......
ye manaa ki suhaag se sindoor ki hai shaan
bismil hue hai ham bhi to apne hi tham se ab
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sahi kaha aapne ....k koi bada kaam karne nahi ja raha hoon....lagta hai apne is thread par shuru se gaur nahi kiya....
aapne honour killing ke bare mein to suna hi hoga.... lagta hai bahut jaldi apni bhi tasveer sabhi isteharoN me aane wali hai...
aap jaise hi wo zalim dost hote hain jo chota kaam kah kar hum jaise kuwaroN ko suli par chadwa dete hain....
k hum to mAre sanam tumko bhi na jeene denge...
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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sahi kaha aapne ....k koi bada kaam karne nahi ja raha hoon....lagta hai apne is thread par shuru se gaur nahi kiya....
aapne honour killing ke bare mein to suna hi hoga.... lagta hai bahut jaldi apni bhi tasveer sabhi isteharoN me aane wali hai...
aap jaise hi wo zalim dost hote hain jo chota kaam kah kar hum jaise kuwaroN ko suli par chadwa dete hain....
k hum to mAre sanam tumko bhi na jeene denge...
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aap chinta na karo....
hum dost ko marne nahi denge....itni asaan sazaa kyu di jaaye...
aap zaruur shadi karke tadap tadap kar marenge
aap hame apke saare bawaalo ka update dete rahna...varna kaise pata chalega ki dost ko bachaane aana hai?
itne zaalim nahi bhayee..tumhe bachaane aa jayenge..gar honour killing ki baat ayegi......
dont worry
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aap chinta na karo....
hum dost ko marne nahi denge....itni asaan sazaa kyu di jaaye...
aap zaruur shadi karke tadap tadap kar marenge
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ha ha ha sahi kaha pranav bhaee aasar to kuch aise hi nazar aate hain abhi se sitam jo utha raha hoon main unke.........
waise love marriage karne ka ek fayada ye bhi hai k couples ko ek dusre se batane ya chupane ke liye shayad kuch baat baki nahi rahti...jisse aage ja kar kisi tarah ki problem aaye....arranged marriage mein iska thik ulta hai wahan sari baatein batayi nahi jati hain aur kai baar to dekha gaya hai k kuch purani baatoN ki wajah se marriages barbaad ho jati hain......
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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ha ha ha sahi kaha pranav bhaee aasar to kuch aise hi nazar aate hain abhi se sitam jo utha raha hoon main unke.........
waise love marriage karne ka ek fayada ye bhi hai k couples ko ek dusre se batane ya chupane ke liye shayad kuch baat baki nahi rahti...jisse aage ja kar kisi tarah ki problem aaye....arranged marriage mein iska thik ulta hai wahan sari baatein batayi nahi jati hain aur kai baar to dekha gaya hai k kuch purani baatoN ki wajah se marriages barbaad ho jati hain......
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aap baat bilkul ulti kar rahe hai...shayad ishq ka nasha hai.......
love marriage me sab baat ka khulaasa ho jata hai....saadi ke pahle....
aur jo nahi hota khulasa uske liye ek dialog hai.......bahut adab me aa kar kah raha hu....waise aap samjhdaar hai...sahi matlab nikaal hi lenge
yu kahte hai ki
'ghodi chadne ke baad ghodi ka khauf nahi rahta'
arranged marriage me magar kuch malum hi nahi hai dusre ke baare me....ek dusre ko samajhne me waqt lag jaata hai....
ek dusre ko explore karne saalo nikal jaate hai.....tab tak aadmi/aurat mature hi jata hai aur sahi pyaar samajhta hai
pyaar zero se shuru hokar badta rahta hai...
luv marriage me sab to samajh liya pahle hi...kabhi kabhi jyada samajh liya....
phir zindagi me bacha kya ...ek dusre se expectation kya?
shaadi ke pahle lovers are at their best behavior with each other...
shadi ke baad raaz khul jaate hai aur nirasha hoti hai.......
isliye divorce rate jyada hai luv marriage me.......
mai ye katai nahi kah raha hu ki aap luv marriage na karee aap
zarurr kijiye aur hame galat saabit kijiye....
is dafa galat bhi saabit hua to koi dukh nahi
best of luck ...i know you will need lots of them
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aap baat bilkul ulti kar rahe hai...shayad ishq ka nasha hai.......
love marriage me sab baat ka khulaasa ho jata hai....saadi ke pahle....
aur jo nahi hota khulasa uske liye ek dialog hai.......bahut adab me aa kar kah raha hu....waise aap samjhdaar hai...sahi matlab nikaal hi lenge
yu kahte hai ki
'ghodi chadne ke baad ghodi ka khauf nahi rahta'
arranged marriage me magar kuch malum hi nahi hai dusre ke baare me....ek dusre ko samajhne me waqt lag jaata hai....
ek dusre ko explore karne saalo nikal jaate hai.....tab tak aadmi/aurat mature hi jata hai aur sahi pyaar samajhta hai
pyaar zero se shuru hokar badta rahta hai...
luv marriage me sab to samajh liya pahle hi...kabhi kabhi jyada samajh liya....
phir zindagi me bacha kya ...ek dusre se expectation kya?
shaadi ke pahle lovers are at their best behavior with each other...
shadi ke baad raaz khul jaate hai aur nirasha hoti hai.......
isliye divorce rate jyada hai luv marriage me.......
mai ye katai nahi kah raha hu ki aap luv marriage na karee aap
zarurr kijiye aur hame galat saabit kijiye....
is dafa galat bhi saabit hua to koi dukh nahi
best of luck ...i know you will need lots of them
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aab baat aagar tark-vitark par aa hi gayi hai to thik hai...main yahan cHat mangni pat byaah wali baat nahi kar raha tha mera manNa hai ke love marriage mein talak wahan hota hai jahan log sirf dil se fiasla karte hain.....parantu har koi aisa nahi hota ishwar ne bahut soch samajh kar dil se upar bhi ek mukam de rakha hai dimaag ko.... jahan dil dimaag par havi ho jata hai wahan insaan moh mein ghir jata hai...aur moh mein liya gaya koi bhi faisla acche ke liye nahi hota hai...na khud ke na dusre ke...
main ek example deta hoon apko.....krishna aur radha ka prem kitna ghanisth tha aap bhi jante hain parantu unhone apne dil se jayada apne dimaag ki suni apne prem ko kabhi bhi apne karm par havi nahi hone diya waise prem to unhone na jane kitno se kiya hoga par radha krishna ka prem tab bhi amar tha aur aaj bhi amar hai....
mera hamesha se manNa hai k love marriage karne se pehle ek dusre ko janNe samajne ke liye jara time dena chahiye...baki itna kuch hone k baad bhi agar kuch bura ho jaye... to itna hi kahunga k guarantee to arranged marriage mein bhi nahi hai bhayee.......
ya yuN kahuN k guarantee to khud aaj k daur mein guarantee ki bhi nahi hai
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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aab baat aagar tark-vitark par aa hi gayi hai to thik hai...main yahan cHat mangni pat byaah wali baat nahi kar raha tha mera manNa hai ke love marriage mein talak wahan hota hai jahan log sirf dil se fiasla karte hain.....parantu har koi aisa nahi hota ishwar ne bahut soch samajh kar dil se upar bhi ek mukam de rakha hai dimaag ko.... jahan dil dimaag par havi ho jata hai wahan insaan moh mein ghir jata hai...aur moh mein liya gaya koi bhi faisla acche ke liye nahi hota hai...na khud ke na dusre ke...
main ek example deta hoon apko.....krishna aur radha ka prem kitna ghanisth tha aap bhi jante hain parantu unhone apne dil se jayada apne dimaag ki suni apne prem ko kabhi bhi apne karm par havi nahi hone diya waise prem to unhone na jane kitno se kiya hoga par radha krishna ka prem tab bhi amar tha aur aaj bhi amar hai....
mera hamesha se manNa hai k love marriage karne se pehle ek dusre ko janNe samajne ke liye jara time dena chahiye...baki itna kuch hone k baad bhi agar kuch bura ho jaye... to itna hi kahunga k guarantee to arranged marriage mein bhi nahi hai bhayee.......
ya yuN kahuN k guarantee to khud aaj k daur mein guarantee ki bhi nahi hai
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apke muh se ye baat sun kar lag raha hai ki koi pandit mujra dekh raha hai
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apke muh se ye baat sun kar lag raha hai ki koi pandit mujra dekh raha hai
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ab jisse aap mujra kah kar pukar rahe hain hamare liye to wo raaslila hai....
apni apni nazar ka fark hai bhayee....
doctor aur kasaai, cheer phaad dono hi karte hain par ek bachane wala ek marne wala...fark hai bhayee...
aur koon se sastron mein likha hai ke pandit mujra nahi dekh sakte....agar likha hai to aaj hi badal dalte hain aakhir hamare pandit hone ka fayada kya hua..
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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love marriage ka faida ek ye bhi hai ki
court marriage jyada possible hai....
jisse unnessary expense bachata hai aur future me vo paisa kaam aata hai
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Sirr ji... Waise to mai is kabil nahi k aapka khair maqdam karu... Parr is thread ka creator hone k naate sabse pehle aapka susuwagtam
Ab sirr ji aapki baato parr prakash daalte hue kuch kehne ki cheshta karna chahta hu... Ummeed hai k aap samjhenge
Sirr ji, jaisa ki aapka signature hai k life ek baar milti hai to shadi bhi ek he baar hoti hai aur agar shadi ko bhi rookha sookha tareeke se manaya jaye to aisi life ka kya faayada
Waise kisi ki do ya zyada baar b ho sakti hai
Aur haan sirr ji... Agar budget me rehte hue shadi ko sab relatives k aashirwaad se sampann karaya jaaye to kya baat hai...
Mai ye nahi kehta k jaeb me hain 2 rs. Aur khane chale 5star me
matlab sirf itna hai k har ladki aur ladke k mann me ( mostly,but exceptions are everywhere ) apni shadi ko lekarr kayi tarah k khwaab hote hain... Aur hamara budget allow karta hai to kyu nahi poore jor shor se is pavitra bandhan k shubh avsar ko poore hersh aur ullaas k saath manaya jaye...
Jabki amuuman love marriages me ladke aur ladki dono k khwaabo ka dam toot jata hai.. Aur shadi ek pavitra rasm hoti hai...
Starting me he manhoos court me kyu jaaye
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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30th June 2010, 08:52 PM
@ secret admirer ye aap he ho???? Mujhe to yakeen he nahi ho raha ... aisa lagta hai jaise aapke andar rajinder ji ki aatma pravesh karr gayi ho
Waise ye 'radha krishan' wala topic mai bhi uthane wala tha parr aapne he utha diya
Thanks
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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@ secret admirer ye aap he ho???? Mujhe to yakeen he nahi ho raha ... aisa lagta hai jaise aapke andar rajinder ji ki aatma pravesh karr gayi ho
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ha ha ha ..........!!!
katil saheb ....Ishk bhayee ki kami puri kar raha tha aapki thread par....waise mujhe ye samajh nahi aa raha hai k ab tak unki taraf se is mudde ko lekar koi jawab kyun nahi aaya hai .....Ishk bhai kya topic aapko pasand nahi aaya..
Na tha main to khuda tha, kuch na hota to khuda hota?
mitaya mujh ko hone ne, na hota main to kya hota !! (NM)
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If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude......
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leo tolstoy said so...... ........................................
andwe also know you are married.....aisi baate ek married aadmi hi likh sakta hai
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leo tolstoy said so...... ........................................
andwe also know you are married.....aisi baate ek married aadmi hi likh sakta hai
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who takes life seriously ziddd g...m nt married m studing..n wt do u mean by aadmi m a girl........
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude......
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ha ha ha ..........!!!
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katil saheb ....Ishk bhayee ki kami puri kar raha tha aapki thread par....waise mujhe ye samajh nahi aa raha hai k ab tak unki taraf se is mudde ko lekar koi jawab kyun nahi aaya hai .....Ishk bhai kya topic aapko pasand nahi aaya..
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shayar bhai, secret bhai
radhe radhe
bhai hamaare shayar bhai topic bahut umda chunte hain par is baar thodi see chalaang laga di isse pahle ye janna jaroori hai ki marriage karni chahiye ya nahi agar yes to question uthta hai ki love ya arrange
khair koi nahi mera naam aa gaya to mai hazir hoon thoda main kisi kaam me masroof ho gaya tha isliye hazir nahi ho saka deri ke liye maafi ka talabgaar hoon
ab pahli baat marriage karni chahiye ya nahi to meri nigah me marriage jaroor karni chahiye iske do mukhy kaaran hain
srishti ko aage badhaana hai aur doosra jo mukhy hai vo hai ki manushy jeevan se sadhna sambhav hai aur isi ke dwara moksh ya mukti ko paaya jaa sakta hai isliye shaadi karke ham ek naye jeev ko janam dekar use janmon se bhatakte hue us jeev ki mukti ka marg prashast karte hain
use ye shareer rupi sadhan pradaan karte hain jisse vo us rah par chal sake
ab raha sawaal ki marriage luv ya arrange to iski charcha agle ank me
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are bhaiu, ye discussion to lomited logoN ke liye ho gayi ab is laddooo ke bare me to whi batayeNge :P jo ise khaa chuke haiN, matlab shaadi shuda log, bhaiya apun to aise hi ahche haiN.... kal hi ek quotation padh tha "Marriage is not a word, it's a sentence...!!"
To jab tak is cheez se door rahe behtar hi, hai, waise baaNki saare laddoo khane ko taiyaar haiN bas is shaadi ke laddoo se hab tak doori bana ke rakh sake utna hi hala hai...!!
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are bhaiu, ye discussion to lomited logoN ke liye ho gayi ab is laddooo ke bare me to whi batayeNge :P jo ise khaa chuke haiN, matlab shaadi shuda log, bhaiya apun to aise hi ahche haiN.... kal hi ek quotation padh tha "Marriage is not a word, it's a sentence...!!"
To jab tak is cheez se door rahe behtar hi, hai, waise baaNki saare laddoo khane ko taiyaar haiN bas is shaadi ke laddoo se hab tak doori bana ke rakh sake utna hi hala hai...!!
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bhai jab aapne taste hi nahi kiya ye laddoo to apko kya pata?
point denied..case dismissed
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Sirr ji... Waise to mai is kabil nahi k aapka khair maqdam karu... Parr is thread ka creator hone k naate sabse pehle aapka susuwagtam
Ab sirr ji aapki baato parr prakash daalte hue kuch kehne ki cheshta karna chahta hu... Ummeed hai k aap samjhenge
Sirr ji, jaisa ki aapka signature hai k life ek baar milti hai to shadi bhi ek he baar hoti hai aur agar shadi ko bhi rookha sookha tareeke se manaya jaye to aisi life ka kya faayada
Waise kisi ki do ya zyada baar b ho sakti hai
Aur haan sirr ji... Agar budget me rehte hue shadi ko sab relatives k aashirwaad se sampann karaya jaaye to kya baat hai...
Mai ye nahi kehta k jaeb me hain 2 rs. Aur khane chale 5star me
matlab sirf itna hai k har ladki aur ladke k mann me ( mostly,but exceptions are everywhere ) apni shadi ko lekarr kayi tarah k khwaab hote hain... Aur hamara budget allow karta hai to kyu nahi poore jor shor se is pavitra bandhan k shubh avsar ko poore hersh aur ullaas k saath manaya jaye...
Jabki amuuman love marriages me ladke aur ladki dono k khwaabo ka dam toot jata hai.. Aur shadi ek pavitra rasm hoti hai...
Starting me he manhoos court me kyu jaaye
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kis signature ki baat kar rahe ho bhai????
madeerapaan waale thread ka asar lagta hai utraa nahi abtak
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Sabse pehle aapka welcome hai gazzala ji
Aapki handwriting kafi achhi hai...
Dua hai k yu he barkaraar rahe...
Aati rahiyega
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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Sabse pehle aapka welcome hai gazzala ji
Aapki handwriting kafi achhi hai...
Dua hai k yu he barkaraar rahe...
Aati rahiyega
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bhaiyya....sazzal sahab hai saahibaa nahi
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shayar bhai,
radhe radhe
bhai hamaare shayar bhai topic bahut umda chunte hain par is baar thodi see chalaang laga di isse pahle ye janna jaroori hai ki marriage karni chahiye ya nahi agar yes to question uthta hai ki love ya arrange
khair koi nahi mera naam aa gaya to mai hazir hoon thoda main kisi kaam me masroof ho gaya tha isliye hazir nahi ho saka deri ke liye maafi ka talabgaar hoon
ab pahli baat marriage karni chahiye ya nahi to meri nigah me marriage jaroor karni chahiye iske do mukhy kaaran hain
srishti ko aage badhaana hai aur doosra jo mukhy hai vo hai ki manushy jeevan se sadhna sambhav hai aur isi ke dwara moksh ya mukti ko paaya jaa sakta hai isliye shaadi karke ham ek naye jeev ko janam dekar use janmon se bhatakte hue us jeev ki mukti ka marg prashast karte hain
use ye shareer rupi sadhan pradaan karte hain jisse vo us rah par chal sake
ab raha sawaal ki marriage luv ya arrange to iski charcha agle ank me
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Meera meera sirr ji
Sabse pehle aapka haardik abhinandan
Sirr ji... Aapki baat se sehmat hu k pehle ye mudda uthna chahiye tha ki shadi kare ya nahi parr yaha koi 'vishwamitra' type ka nahi hai na... To isiliye maine ye topic choose kiya tha aur waise b Aap khud keh re hain k shadi karni chahiye aur aapne kii bhi hai
Khair... Waise aapke duusre kaaran k upar kuch kehna chahuunga ki shadi ka ek kaaran ye b hai k ham duusre jeev ko shreer ka saadhan de moksh ki praapti hetu...
Parr sirr ji... Agar ...
Nope... Is mudde parr behas nahi karruunga...
Aur sunaaiye... Waise aapki love thi ya arrange ???
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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are bhaiu, ye discussion to lomited logoN ke liye ho gayi ab is laddooo ke bare me to whi batayeNge :P jo ise khaa chuke haiN, matlab shaadi shuda log, bhaiya apun to aise hi ahche haiN.... kal hi ek quotation padh tha "Marriage is not a word, it's a sentence...!!"
To jab tak is cheez se door rahe behtar hi, hai, waise baaNki saare laddoo khane ko taiyaar haiN bas is shaadi ke laddoo se hab tak doori bana ke rakh sake utna hi hala hai...!!
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Lucky ji... Kaha chale janab ?? Tashreef laaiye idhar bhi... Aur is topic ke nichod ko padh kar apne laddoo ka faisla leejiye
Aapka intzaar rahega ... Aap badi sahi-2 quotations dhhond dhoond kar laate hain
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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bhai jab aapne taste hi nahi kiya ye laddoo to apko kya pata?
point denied..case dismissed
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Hahahaha.... Zidd sahab ... Aapki ada k kya kehne
Waise aapne dimaag taste kiya hai kabhi??
Parr aapke andar bahut hai...
Waise sab aamantrit hain is thread parr ... Kunware ho ya shadishuda...
Ye baat aur hai ki shadishuda logo ki baat ko zyada tavajjo di jayegi but exceptions are everywhere
Aur zidd sahabb... aapne to signature he change kiya hai sirf, meri baato k kaarann... Kuch log to poori ki poori id he change karr daalte hain
Aapko chuhe aur billi ki kahani sunani hai...
Jisme chuhe ne yaad dilaayi,billi ko nani hai...
lekin chuha bhool gaya tha k wo sapna tha...
aakhir me shamat to chuhe ki he aani hai :D
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Hahahaha.... Zidd sahab ... Aapki ada k kya kehne
Waise aapne dimaag taste kiya hai kabhi??
Parr aapke andar bahut hai...
Waise sab aamantrit hain is thread parr ... Kunware ho ya shadishuda...
Ye baat aur hai ki shadishuda logo ki baat ko zyada tavajjo di jayegi but exceptions are everywhere
Aur zidd sahabb... aapne to signature he change kiya hai sirf, meri baato k kaarann... Kuch log to poori ki poori id he change karr daalte hain
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kiya hai maine dimaag taste
dilli me jama masjid ki seedi par bheja fry milta hai...vo khaya hai maine
chalo...mai hi is case ka faisla suna deta hu...
for all the forgoing reasons it is ruled that:
love marriage is a comulsory suicide
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arranged marriage is nothing but arranged murder
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ab is topic par baat karte hai........
how to choose a girl for marriage
matlab beauty,duty wagaira kaise check kare....
experienced holder tips den aur aap biti bataye joki aane waale shaheedo ko faida ho...
jinki shaadi nahi hui vo ye bataye ki aap beauty aur dusri wifey qualities kaise check karenge.....
aur apni wife me kya kya chahenge
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32 saal ke neeche ki ladkiyo ko caution kiya jaata hai ki is thread par aaye to apne risk par aaye...mental breakdown ho jaaye to hum zimedaar nahi.....
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kiya hai maine dimaag taste
dilli me jama masjid ki seedi par bheja fry milta hai...vo khaya hai maine
chalo...mai hi is case ka faisla suna deta hu...
for all the forgoing reasons it is ruled that:
love marriage is a comulsory suicide
and
arranged marriage is nothing but arranged murder
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ab is topic par baat karte hai........
how to choose a girl for marriage
matlab beauty,duty wagaira kaise check kare....
experienced holder tips den aur aap biti bataye joki aane waale shaheedo ko faida ho...
jinki shaadi nahi hui vo ye bataye ki aap beauty aur dusri wifey qualities kaise check karenge.....
aur apni wife me kya kya chahenge
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32 saal ke neeche ki ladkiyo ko caution kiya jaata hai ki is thread par aaye to apne risk par aaye...mental breakdown ho jaaye to hum zimedaar nahi.....
( chalo ab zainyji se peecha chutaa...isko band karne kai nahi ayega )
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Well ... dekhna kya hai , man ko achi lag gayee .. kar lo shadi, it will take few minute ....... to deiced ..
abhi itna hi apna tazurbaa baad mai pahle bado ke tazurboN ko mouka dena chahiye
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32 saal ke neeche ki ladkiyo ko caution kiya jaata hai ki is thread par aaye to apne risk par aaye...mental breakdown ho jaaye to hum zimedaar nahi.....
( chalo ab zainyji se peecha chutaa...isko band karne kai nahi ayega )
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no comments.......................
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