The mysterious thing calld "love"

[monica]

We humans are prone to fall in love with persons we
> meet during the
> course of our lifetime. We tend to have a loving
> nature towards the
> people with whom we have regular contacts or even to
> the animals
> whom we keep as pets. Here is some matter about
> "Love" which you
> will find very interesting and worth reading about.
>
>
> If you find yourself in love with someone who does
> not love you, be
> gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with
> you. Love just didn't
> choose to rest in the other person's heart.
>
> If you find someone else in love with you and you
> don't love him/her,
> feel honored that love came and called at your door,
> but gently refuse
> the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage,
> do not cause pain.
>
> How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and
> all our hearts feel
> the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways
> are different.
>
> If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls
> in love with you, and
> then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it
> or to assess blame,
> let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning.
> You will know in
> time.
>
> Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses
> you. All you can
> really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
> comes into your life.
> Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach
> out and give it
> away.
>
> Give it back to the person who brought it alive in
> you. Give it to
> others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the
> world around you in
> anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong.
> Having been so long
> without love, they understand love only as a need.
> They see their hearts
> as empty places that will be filled by love, and
> they begin to look at
> love as something that flows to them rather than
> from them.
>
> The first blush of new love is filled to
> overflowing, but as their love
> cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.
> They cease to be
> someone who generates love and instead become
> someone who seeks love.
>
> They forget that the secret of love is that it is a
> gift, and that it
> can be made to grow only by giving it away.
>
> Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has
> its own time, its own
> seasons, and its own reason for coming and going.
> You cannot bribe it or
> coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only
> embrace it when it
> arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But
> if it chooses to
> leave from your heart or from the heart of your
> lover, there is nothing
> you can do and there is nothing you should do.
>
> Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
> Be glad that it came
> to live for a moment in your life!
>
>
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>luv
moni

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