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meri ek problem hai-koi madat karega please
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meri ek problem hai-koi madat karega please - 16th February 2005, 08:16 PM

main ek ladke se pyaar karti hu uska naam baaqar abbas hai,pehle usne mujhse shaadi karne ke liye itne offers diye ki kya batau,lekin us waqt main apne pyaar pe sure nahi thi that i can live with him or not ,mere gharwaalo ne meri engagement karvadi par main kuch nahi kaha chup chaap engagement kar li,aur baaqar ko aakhri waqt tak mujhse umeed rahi that means jab tak meri shaadi ki date fixed ho jaaye he was waiting for my reply
ab jab mujhe aisa lag raha hai ki main apne gharwaalo ko chod sakti hu uske liye engagement bhi tod sakti hu badnami bhi seh sakti hu sab kar sakti hu ,maine use 2 din pehle bataya ki main usse ab itna zyaada pyaar karne lagi hu ki ab shaadi kisi aur se na kar sakungi na kisi ke saath zindagi guzaar sakungi to usne mujhe kaha ki agar main feb ki 5 taareekh ko batati to wo engagement nahi karta usne engagement kar li thi feb 5 ko,ab aisa hogaya hai ki 29 may ko meri shaadi fix huyi hai,i cant marry my fiance,i just love baaqar madly and i have to marry him
main souch rahi hu ki march 27th ko main 18 yrs complete kar rahi hu to main ghar se bhaag jaungi mera ek dost hai imraan wo mujhe bhaagne me madad karega
kya main sahi kar rahi hu??????????


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dont run - 16th February 2005, 10:05 PM

hi this is a tough question par let me tell u this or actually ask you this if the guy luved u so much that he was waiting and waiting for you,,achanak hi how come he got married...and then he diidnt even tellu...kisi se uski engageenet aise hi to nahi ho gayi hai....it takes time, which he might have taken for sure...so u want to run for him....leaving ur parents specially when marriage date is fixed....i am NOT WITH U. sorry!! aisa karna tha to pehlke karti....ab karke khud ko dhoka dogi aur parents dont ask what they will face...i know we have to be with the luuved one...par how he got enegaaed...how come he diidnt tell u..if he was waiting for far,,why diidnt he wait a little more...itna hi pyar hai usko tumse?

i may be rude but this is what i feel..

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hi - 16th February 2005, 10:07 PM

also waht if u run today from home....and he leave u tommrow...whats the gaurantee?? ur fiance may be more better then him..u never know..
if he leave u tommrow na tum uski ho sakogi...aur na gharwale tumko apnayainge? what will u do then..

i am not saying ki think negetive but u have to take all the situations into consideration and be preapred !!

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16th February 2005, 10:24 PM

Priya ne sahi jawad diya nilofer ji....

gaur kijiye aur samajhne ki koshish kijiye.............

nice suggestion priya....so much practical......



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hi - 16th February 2005, 10:44 PM

hi aman yes life me practical hona padta hai kabhi kabhi or most of the time...she is only 18 not even 18 yet...let me tell u this...agar mujhe koyi kahe mere saath bhag le...will i run?
no matter how much i luv this person par kya kabhi ye khyal dimag me aaya hai that....i am 23 and he is suppose for example 25...26, jo insaan 25 or something saal saath rehkar bhi gharwalo ka ho na saka....vo mera kaise hoga when i guess i wud only know him for a little bit of time..

mushkilo se bhagna aasan hai anyone can do it...u want to do it..then do it..its ur life...par face karo to acha hoga..it may be hard but u will be respected.....nilofer u might wanna talk to ur parents.....may be they can do something for you...if u want then thru a friend or brother sister who can help u...tell them abt the person u luv..

there are lot of things u cud do...RUNNING ISNT THE SOLUTION.

AAJ GHARWALO SE BHAG RAHI HO, KAL JANE KIS SE BHAGO'GI TUM?

if a person luv us..they wud wait..i am not saying wait a lifetime...thats fake....but wait a little....tumahri engagement me kitna waqt hua hai..that gave him time to MEET SOMEONE, DECIDE HE WANT TO BE WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND THEN GET ENAGGED AND NOW HE WUD MARRY HER.

THIS ALL TAKES TIME, THOUGHTS AND CONSIDERATION.

IF HE THINK HE LUV U AND THEN HE CAN """STILL""" CONSIDER SOMEONE ELSE. -------> I WUD NOT BE WITH HIM.

AGAR KISI KA SAATH CHAHIYE...PURA PAYO AADHA NAHI....THIS SHOWS HE IS CONFUSE MAY BE REGARDING U....IS KARKE HE GOT ANOTHER GIRL.....GIIRLS HAVE TO B RESPECTED A LOT

WHAT IF U RUN WITH HIM TODAY AND TOMMROW HE GIVE U TANNA...KI TU BHI TO BHAGI HAI MERE SAATH? TERA KYA BHAROSA??? WHAT WIILL U DO? WILL U GO BACK TO PARENTS WHO WUD NOT ACCEPT U? WUD U BE ALONE ALL UR LIFE?

UR TOO SMALL I MEAN TOO YOUNG TO MAKE THE DECISION

FROM EXPEREINCE I WUD SAY

DONT RUN

THINK ABT WHAT I SAID LOGICALLY

AND MAKE DECISION FOR URSELF...

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thanx - 17th February 2005, 07:15 PM

thanx for ur reply priya and aman
i am so much mad abt baaqar that i have decided to run away from home at 27th march at night and my frnd is gonna help me ,but i have kept a condition towards baaqar that marry that girl it doesnt matters me but marry me too and then if he leaves me i wont say a word
kam se kam jise pyaar karti hu uska naam to pa sakungi chahe usse dhur sahi


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hi - 17th February 2005, 07:32 PM

hi nilofer, sorry you are making a big mistake

u want him to marry u and her

look i can understand your feelings trust me...BUT

what else a guy wants he can have you and her...wow! nothing else he might want to have..

when u luv someone and suppose he marry u and her also....u wont be able to see him with her trust me..

i dont agree with u, though i know how crazy one person can be in luv...luv is blind but if u want to bbecome blind all your life "then no one can help you"

wish u goodluck

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17th February 2005, 07:55 PM

dont ever do that nilofer..... u r going to spoil three lives.....is he is with u both....

other wise if he lefts her afterwards..........then her life will be ruined and for whole life u will never be haapy.......

remember newtons law of motion.....every action has an equal and opposite reaction........

i u will ruin her life then u will never be haapy .............

and if he becomes father with her then he will leave u.....look beyond which u dont want to dear......

priya samjhaooo ise.........

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Bahut bari galti karne ja rahi. Do kashtiyon mein pair rakhogi to doob jaoge. Yeh decision galat hai. I live in US and phir bhi ek Indian nahin ek Insaan kee tarah answer de rahi hoon. Abhi bhi sambhal jao. Aapne maa baap ke baare mein socho. Jin hone itne saal tumhe padaya likhaya. U r just 18 is age mein kar chamkti cheez sona lagti hai. But remember, all that shines is not gold. Us insaan ke baare mein socho jisne tumhe fiance' ke roop mein apnaya hai. Usska aur uske khandaan ka kya?
Physical love might last for 5 may be 10 may be 15 yrs but mental and spiritual love counts. Tumhari zindagi tumhare haath mein hai. Isse sawaar bhi sakti ho aur bana bhi sakti ho. Agar woh tumse pyar karta to kisi aur se engagement nahin karta. Aur ek baat u r just attracted to him. True love is more than this. Jab tak woh tumhare peeche tha tumne socha nahin. Ab jab woh nahin hai to usski attention paane ke liye tum yeh kar rahi ho.
Sorry if I hurt u but Love is selfless, is a risk, is life. Your fear is keeping u from taking the right decision.Tum jaanti ho ke tumhara decision galat hai phir bhi........ !!!
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17th February 2005, 10:29 PM

Rinky ji te naale Priya ji.....

tusi doohan ne chunga suggest kitta........

as a girl u can think in her way............

Priya changa lagya ki ene busy hoon ton baad vi vel kad ke nilofar nu samjhaan aa gayi......

thanks dear........

and thanks Rinky ji......


Nilofer we have experienced life and can think in more practical way....

think from all angels..........and then take step.......

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17th February 2005, 10:54 PM

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Hi ,

Aaj yahan par sab ke vichar padh raha tha...
Tumhare problem bhi padhi aur mein samjh raha hoon tum par kya beet rahi hai...
Koi aur tumhara saath de na de mein jaroor doonga...

To kya hua isse tumhare Maa baap ko dukh hoga to...
To kya hua shayad woh kissi ko apna mu na dikha sakein
To kya hua agar unhone18 saal tumhe pyaar se rakha aur is kabil banaya ki koi tumse pyaar karein...
Ek dum sahi sila de rahi ho unke 18 saal ke pyaar ka...
Mein bilkul tumhare saath hoon...Bilkul mat ghabrana..

Woh ladka tumse pyar karte karte ek aur ladki ke saath shaadi kar raha hai...He is just amazing a real casanova...Ek baar to usse milna hi padega mujhe...
Poochoon to sahi panchon ungliyan ghee mein kaise rakhte hain...
I will say this it is not his fault at all...
Maybe somewhere in the bottom of his hart he loves you...
But you know you are ruining not just two but abotu 12 peoples lives here..
All the parents and the one you are gonna marry one he is gonna marry and his and yourself...

But i am with you... three cheers! ....
Mein to kehta hoon 18 hone tak kyon rukti ho kal kisne dekha hai...
Aaj hi Bhaag jao....
Kitne logon ka dil tutta hai tuttne do no problems...
Dil dukhega tumhare Maa Baap ka to kya hai Baazar se kal ek aur la kar dena...
Kal Maa Baap ko bhi kuch ho gaya tumhare to kya hua...
Kal ek aur le aana ... No issues at all

Well Done Madam well done
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18th February 2005, 08:34 AM

Rohin Brother.....

nice answer and a good suggestion dear......



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enough is enough - 19th February 2005, 11:24 AM

maine sirf madad maangi thi aap logo ne itna suna diya thnx
thnx a alot
itna kuch keh diye mere parents ke baare me jab ke mere paas hai hi nahi
and my chacha chachi is damn strict with me
they dont even allow me to complete my studies
ab bataiye kahi se mujhe pyaar nahi milta kabhi nahi agar baaqar se dhur rehkar bhi mujhe ye ehsaas ho jaaye ki koi to hai mera jiska naam mere paas ho jise main apna keh saku jo mujhse pyaar karta ho jisse main umeede rakhu jo mere armaan poore kare jo meri khwahisho ki kadr kare
pyaar paana kitna mushkil hai ye maine jaana hai
pyaar sabko nahi milta
aur mujhe to kabhi mila hi nahi
ye attraction nahi hai
na use paane ki zidd
bas ye koshish ki mere dil ko kahi se thandak pohche thoda sukoon naseeb ho
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aage aap logo ne jo kaha uske liye bohat shukriya
mere paas ek bhi dost nahi hai na koi friend isiliye aap se madad maangi
apna time mujhe dene ke liye thanx a a lot


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Re: enough is enough - 19th February 2005, 11:43 AM

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maine sirf madad maangi thi aap logo ne itna suna diya thnx
thnx a alot
itna kuch keh diye mere parents ke baare me jab ke mere paas hai hi nahi
and my chacha chachi is damn strict with me
they dont even allow me to complete my studies
ab bataiye kahi se mujhe pyaar nahi milta kabhi nahi agar baaqar se dhur rehkar bhi mujhe ye ehsaas ho jaaye ki koi to hai mera jiska naam mere paas ho jise main apna keh saku jo mujhse pyaar karta ho jisse main umeede rakhu jo mere armaan poore kare jo meri khwahisho ki kadr kare
pyaar paana kitna mushkil hai ye maine jaana hai
pyaar sabko nahi milta
aur mujhe to kabhi mila hi nahi
ye attraction nahi hai
na use paane ki zidd
bas ye koshish ki mere dil ko kahi se thandak pohche thoda sukoon naseeb ho
bas
aage aap logo ne jo kaha uske liye bohat shukriya
mere paas ek bhi dost nahi hai na koi friend isiliye aap se madad maangi
apna time mujhe dene ke liye thanx a a lot
nilofer ji,
i was going through ur post bt was unable to tell u wat i needed to say. bt today i made my mind to reply u. first of all very srry to knw abt ur parents. buddy i knw its not easy to forget ur first love. bt one thing i wud love to say that u asked for help. we whole family is ready to help u bt at one cost u listen to us first. u are to immatured n nt able to see the other side of the road. aare zindaghi to abhi shuru hui hai, mana u didnt get love frm ur family bt tht doesnt mean tht u put urself in trouble for tht. look dear life is not easy the way u are thinking. tell me one thing u are ready to get married to a person who wants to enjoy with two in his hands. well srry buddy this is not love. well if i find my husband loving some else too despite loving me, i wud get more possesive n wont excuse him ever for that. hw will u handle urself wen u find him with his other wife. wont u feel lonely at those moments. see if he too is sincere with u he shud tell the other girl tht look i love this girl n i am srry i cant marry u as i cant keep u happy. buddy the path u hv opted is not correct, plz try to understand wat all here replied u. love has no end dear. i know one day u will definately find it. god is not tht bad tht he will never take care of ur feelings. well still u think tht u need our support well buddy i m there to help u, even rohin is there to help u. bt first think with cold mind tht the step wat u are gonna take, are u sure u not gonna repent later. u say let him marry me n later let him leave me. answer me just this thing dear friend tht now u are ready to live or to die for him, will u be able to take the set back if he leaves u later.my dear hw cud u say tht nobody loves u. look u wrote abt ureself in this site n hw many are with u. this whole family wud love u dear, plz forgod sake for us dont spoil ur life. we all love u and wont be able to see u in problem. wait for the right time to come. i am sure u will be blessed by god with lots n lots of smiles. well still the decesion lies in ur hands, bt just a request to u dont make ur life more hell buddy. its a request. take care n may god bless u with his fine glitters.
   
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19th February 2005, 11:56 AM

nilofer main uper jitne bhi logon ne rely kiya hai
un sabhi ke saath sehmat hu

koi bhi galat kadam mat uthana
ek kaam karo
thande dimag se socho
ekdam shaanti se baith kar sochne ye baat
apne aapko ye baat puchna
aankhe band karna aur fir gaur se sochna
ki "kya baqaar vo shakhs hai jiske liye tum duniya me sab kuch chod sakti ho"

dil se apne aap awaaz nikle gi

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19th February 2005, 12:45 PM

Nilofer ji.....

yahan sabne reply kiya kyunki sab aapke saath hain.....koi aapka dil dukhana nahi chahta tha.....

sabko aapki zindagi ki chinta hai isliye yahan aapko samjhane aa gaye..... varna hum kaun hote hain samjhane vaale jihone khud zindagi ko ab tak nahi samjha........

maana ke tumne kabhi pyar nahi paya aur uska pyar hi tumhe sab kutch nazar aa raha hai.....

ek baat kehna choonga.....

jisne zindagi ek rakh mein kaati ho use har chamakti cheez sona lagti hai

vo kya jaane sona kya hota hai.... usne to bus suna tha.....aur vo us chamakne vaali cheez ko sona samajh dil se laga baithta hai.....

umr beet-ti hai....aur kabhi koi rah chalte musafir se vo khushi se kehti hai....dekho maine zindagi mein sona paya....

jab haqeeqat saamne aati hai to dil toot ke bikhar jaata hai.....

bus nilofer usi din ka darr hai jo tumhe aaj ye samjha rahe hain sabhi.......


otherwise do one thing....tell him to break his engagement also if you are stick to marry him

aur main to yahan sirf Priya ka saath dene aaya tha.....use tumhare saath joojhte dekha to socha apna tazurba bhi batata chaloon....


Thanks to all of you.......

and Priya....special thanks to you.....jaanda haan ki kinna busy ho....pher vi ethe aa ke nilofer nu samjhaya.....


Take care nilofer.......



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19th February 2005, 02:38 PM

Hi Nilofer,

Aapke Mumy Papa ke baare mein jaan kar afsos hua.

Ek Baade bhai ke naate hi keh raha hoon Nilofer ...
Agar samjh mein aaye to achi baat hai ..

Zindagi ke eham mod par ho tum ...Peeche mudne ka koi raasta nahi hai...
Tumhe aaj kyonki tumhare paas ke logon se pyaar nahi mil raha hai isliye tum uss ladke ke mil rahe pyaar ko paaan chahti ho..
Magar socho tum abhi bachi ho...Tumpe bahut kuch guzra hai maanta hoon ... Magar ek pal ke liye yeh socho kitni zindagi dau par lagi hai...

Ek baar bhi yeh socha hai us ladki ka kya hoga jisse Bashar shaadi karne wala hai...
Jab logon ko pata chalega uski shaadi tut gaayi hai uski zindagi jhenum se kum nahi hogi...
Saari zindagi usse sunna padhega ... shaayad uski zindagi nark ban jaaye..Kyon nahi samjhti ho ki der ho gayi hai... Bahut der

Jab usne tumse pyaar ka izhar kiya tha tab tumhe haan bolna tha ..
Aaj nahi aaj tumhe uska tumse duurjaana khatak raha hai...
Mein bhi 18 saal ka tha...Tab saari duniya dushman hi lagti hai...
Apne maa baap, rishtedar sab...

Kyunki tumhe apna maana isliye keh raha tha...
Apni behan ko bhi yehi kehta...Meri ek choti behan hai ...
Isliye sab samjhta hoon...

Agar ek bhai ke liye thodi bhi izzat ho to please yeh Kadam lene se pehle dus baar sochna... Aur agar le lo to ek hi baat kahoonga...Khush raho...

Tumhari na samjhi par dukh to bahut ho raha hai...
Magar kya karoon tumne humme apna nahi maana

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ih - 19th February 2005, 10:51 PM

dearest nilofer,
hame aapke parents ke baare me pata na tha, jan kar behad afsos hua. can understand your situation more now. i know u asked for maadat aur humne result shayad suna diya aapko.

madad ye hai: decision aapko banani hai let me give u + and - sides and u can decide for yourself..

+ of running: u will get SHARED love of your boyfriend. aapko aaj tfak pyar na mila thoda aur pyar milega.

- of running: aapko apna pyar share karna padega which is not easy.
what if he leave u tommrow what will you do?
what if the other tommroe dont let your boyfriend come to you at all what will u do?
what if she get pregnant first and he dont come back to you?
what if he give u taaney everyday tu to bhagi hai mere saath tera kya bharosa aaj mere saath bhagi hai kal kisi aur ke saath? u never kow what he can say?
kya tumhe lagta haii being a secong wife you will be happy?

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+ and - negetive chodo, aapne kaha ki aapko kisi ka kabhi pyar na mila, kya aapko ye nahi lagta ki why are we all coming and replying over here...dont u see any concern in our tellin g u what to do? hamara pyar aapko nahi dikh raha?

aapko to khsunasseeb hai, kuch logo ka pya rna mila par itne saare dost mile aapko itna pyar, itni care karne wale?

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jo bhi ho hum sab aapko saath hai, try this, run and marry but tel the guy to break his enagement and then marry u, so if he leave her and marry u, u wil get what u want ..........

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Thoda sa pyar paane ke liye bahut kuch kho na dena,
thoda paane ki chaht me bahtu kuch na kho dena.......

aapki khushi me hi hamari khushi hai......trust me.

hum sab chahtey hai aapko dher sara pyar mile par sacha pyar...we dont want jis pyar ke liye aap taras rahi hai, when u get it, aapko lage me pyar ke bina hi theek thi.


duniya me pyar ke bina jeena aasaan hai, beyimaan pyar ke saath jena, bahut mushkil........

lots of luck and best wishes to you

do let me know what you have to say..

yours always and always with you

-------> aapki behan Priya.


Akhihaan milaake chan'na paavi na Judayi Vey .......

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Jisnu Lagey, ohi'yo jaane, Kaun Jaane peer parayi!


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19th February 2005, 11:23 PM

Hi Nlofer ,

Pata nahi kyon...
Magar Priya ki tarah mujhe bhi baar baar yahan, reply kar raha hoon...
Shayad mujhe ab bhi umeed hai ki tum meri baat maan jaogi...
Ek bade bhai ki baat shayad maan logi tum...

Tumhare pyaar ki kadar karta hoon nilofer...
Aaj kaam par aaya tha... Magar sirf tumhare baare mein soch raha tha...
Kuch acha nahi lag raha tha... Umeed kar raha tha tum aaogi padhogi...
Aur ho sakega to mein tumse baat bhi karoonga...

Kyunki ek bhai apni behan ko galat kadam uthate hue nahi dekh sakta...

Nilofer Tumhari chehre ki hassi ke liye tumhara yeh bhai kuch bhi kar sakhta hai...

Tumhe kyon lagta hai tumhe koi pyaar nahi karta...Yahan shayad hi koi aisa shaks hoga jo tumhara saath nahi dega...

Magar bhai bheno ka to sabse pehla farz hi hota hai apno ko sahi rasta dikhana...

Tum to mujhse keh rahi ho ki bhaiya mein khai mein kudna chahti hoon please mujhe dhaka de do...

I can't do it to u sis... i really can't....

God forbid if u take this step.... I will....Please think again

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hi - 21st February 2005, 08:56 PM

thanx a lot priya didi rohin bhaiya
chalo isi bahane ek badi behan aur ek bhai mil gaya
bohat khushi huyi
u wont believe ye reply padhkar aankhen nam pad gayi
mujhpar bharosa kijiye aur itna yakeen rakhe ki main koi galat kadam nahi uthaungi jo kuch karungi souch samajhkar apne haq me jo behtar hoga wohi karungi
aap logo se guzarish hai ki mujhe mat bhoolna
love u lots
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21st February 2005, 10:30 PM

Hi lovely heart full of love,

Na dushman hun kisi ka na ittefaq Rakhta hun
Ja badnaseeb teri ye khata bhi maaf karta hun

God knows if i m the right person to advise u on his matters.....Grass always looks green on the orher side of the hill.........18 is too early to take ur own decisions.........

Ask urself......
1. Did he ever stuck to his commitment to marry u?
2. Is he capable enough to manage his family independently?
3. Did he ever meet ur parents n tried 2 satisfy them?
4. Is he honest and sincere enough to ensure u live a respectable life?...... I beliv he disqualified here by suggesting u to elope with him.
5. Put urself in the shoes of ur parents and ask urself if u will allow ur daugher whn she is only 18.
6. What r u gonna do if u r cheated. What probably happens in more thn 90% such cases.
7. If u r cheated, r u competant enough to stand alone to fight all odds.

IF THE ANSWER IS IN NEGATIVE DONT CHELLANGE UR GOOD LUCK IN THE NAME OF LOVE. LOVE IS NOT DESTROYER. BUT LIVES ARE DESTROYED IN THE NAME OF LOVE. THE LOOSER PART IS 99%FEMALE. ALL THT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD...........

Kiye jate ho tum charche kisi dard-e-kahani ke
Tumhe gam se shikayat hei hame is zindagani se.....

FORGIVE ME FOR GOD'S SAKE IF I DONT SPEAK UR LANGUAGE....

WARM REGARDS AND BEST OF LUCK


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... - 21st February 2005, 10:36 PM

And yes....

Start poll on ur problem at shayri.com......... Find out what all these bleeding hearts suggest......

Forgive me if i hurt u
Warm Regards


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इस भरे शहर में हम Dard-e-Sush, जो न पाया उसे भी खोते हैं!

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23rd February 2005, 09:52 AM

Hi Nilofer,
Yahan pe sabi log bahut sahi tarike se analyze karke, advice diye hain and I agree with them.
Bas e questions rakna apne samne before taking any step
If you take the decission today (to go away / not to go away)
1. One year from now what options will you have.
2. Ten years from now what options will you have.
Depending on the options and possibilities in both cases you could decide what you really want. You are best judge for your life be impartial to both decisions while evaluating.

Have a great life ahead.


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23rd February 2005, 10:39 AM

Nilofer ji.....

to kutch socha aapne.....sabhi ne apna experience bata diya hai.....

Dard-e-shush ji aur Shadow ji....shukriya aap sabka....



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23rd February 2005, 02:09 PM

Dear Nilofer,
mujhe tum janti nahee mai iss site par sirf padne ke liye aati hoo jyada mai kisi ko reply nahee deti lekin tumhari umr aur tumhara problem dekh kar dil kiya tumhe kuch kahoo, Nilofer tum uss insaan ke pass yah shart rakho ki tum usse tabi shadi karogi jab woh apna engagement todega, tumne likha hai pehle usne tumhe propose kiya aur tumne inkaar kiya rite iska matlab yeh huva woh tumse bahot pehle se pyar karta hai tumhe sirf 2 ya 3 mnths ho gaye yeh ehsaas hoke ki tum usse pyar karti ho agar tum 2 ya 3 mahine k pyar ke liye apna engagement tod sakti ho to woh nahee tod sakta kya, agar woh apni engagement todneke liye ready nahee hota to usse tumhara pyar pane ka koi hakk nahee hai.......pls nilofer hum sub tumhe choti behen ki tarah samja rahe hai samjneki koshish karo agar woh ladka tum dono se shadi karna chahata hai to woh galat hai tum iss galati mei uska saath kabhi mat dena

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Re: meri ek problem hai-koi madat karega please - 23rd February 2005, 02:17 PM

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main ek ladke se pyaar karti hu uska naam baaqar abbas hai,pehle usne mujhse shaadi karne ke liye itne offers diye ki kya batau,lekin us waqt main apne pyaar pe sure nahi thi that i can live with him or not ,mere gharwaalo ne meri engagement karvadi par main kuch nahi kaha chup chaap engagement kar li,aur baaqar ko aakhri waqt tak mujhse umeed rahi that means jab tak meri shaadi ki date fixed ho jaaye he was waiting for my reply
ab jab mujhe aisa lag raha hai ki main apne gharwaalo ko chod sakti hu uske liye engagement bhi tod sakti hu badnami bhi seh sakti hu sab kar sakti hu ,maine use 2 din pehle bataya ki main usse ab itna zyaada pyaar karne lagi hu ki ab shaadi kisi aur se na kar sakungi na kisi ke saath zindagi guzaar sakungi to usne mujhe kaha ki agar main feb ki 5 taareekh ko batati to wo engagement nahi karta usne engagement kar li thi feb 5 ko,ab aisa hogaya hai ki 29 may ko meri shaadi fix huyi hai,i cant marry my fiance,i just love baaqar madly and i have to marry him
main souch rahi hu ki march 27th ko main 18 yrs complete kar rahi hu to main ghar se bhaag jaungi mera ek dost hai imraan wo mujhe bhaagne me madad karega
kya main sahi kar rahi hu??????????
nilofer ji
priya ji ne bilkul sahi kaha hai.
agar aap ab bhi aisa kartee ho to tumse bad kar koi bebkoof nahi hoga. samzeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee tum.


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hi nilofer this is not called love - 12th September 2005, 05:20 PM

hi nilofer jut im going through to ur stuff i feel bad what abbas did with u but ek baat kahu nilofer thali ek haat se nahi bajthi ..... dont mind yaar but this is fact of life u have to accept ......... when wo aapko proposals beje the tab aap kiu sure nahi thi isme aapki bhi galthi hai na but u wanna know that this is called life what ever is gone leave it that will never come back to u think positive n be optimestic n start ur life again in right direction but one thing i want to advise u dear never look back never ..... coz it hurts a lot coz i know the pain its happen with me also ...... but now i make up my mind to start new life mushkil hai per na mumkin tho nahi shayed ye uper wale ki marzi hogi u donno what going to happen in ur future weather u may be happy or sad with this person but any ways ghar se bhagna ye sab buzdil log karte hai kamiyab insan wo hai jo sitution ko face karsake any ways shayed aapko bura lage magar yehi fact hai aur ........ per ek baath aur khena chata hu ok leave aapko bura lagega i dont want to hurt u , but i was hurt with ur stuff any ways muje jo khjena tha maine khediya aage aap ki marzi hai magar diyan rakhe ki kisi zindagi karab na ho......... aur loe ka matlab sirf usko pana hi nahi hota isme sacrifice bhi dena padta hai ..... aur jo aap apne parents ke saath waqt guzare itne saal what ever ur age may be ...... aap ka saath abbas se sirf 2 ya 3 ya 4 ya 5 sal ka hoga, magar aap jo zindagi aapne parents ke saath guzare suppose 2o years right agar 5 years usmese nikal de bache 15 saal ........ think once dear 15 saal ya 5 saal aap ke liye bade hai.....its depend up on ur thinking but in my point of view u should forget every thing what had happen with u in past start a life fresh.........
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19th September 2005, 01:14 AM

well i have read all replies to ur very serious concern ,,,,i wud request u to plz understand wat all these people 4m diffrent locations and diffrent religion are tryin to say,,,all cant be wrong


what i ever you do would make or mar ur entire life so be care ful

and leave the rest to god..............


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