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60 Ways to get and keep your wife's love


1. Make her feel secure; QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE


2. When you go home greet her


3. Wife is a fragile vessel , take care of this vessel that’s fragile. Remember that there is goodness in this vessel so treat it gently.

4. When you advise her, do so in privacy, in a peaceful environment. NOT IN PUBLIC as it’s a type of slandering.

5. Be generous to your wife- it keeps her LOVED

6. Move and let her have your seat. It will warm her heart.

7. AVIOD ANGER. HOW? if you are angry, sit down, if you’re sitting, then lie down.


8. Look good and smell great for your wife. IT keeps the LOVE!

9. Don’t be rigid. It will break you. Being rigid and harsh will not bring you close to God and neither does it make you more of a man.

10. Listen to your wife-BE a GOOD LISTENER

11. YES to flattering NO to arguing. Arguing is like poison in a marriage. When GOD wants evil for people He will leave them to argue amongst themselves'.

12. Call your wife with the best name, any name she loves to hear. t.

13. Give her a pleasant surprise. I.e. if she loves watermelon, bring her one out of the blue. It will grow the love in her heart.

14. Preserve your tongue! tongue will throw people in the hell fire so watch what you say and how you say it!

15. All of us have shortcoming. Accept her shortcoming


16. TELL her you appreciate her. SHOW her you appreciate her.

17. Encourage her to keep good relation with her relative, her mum and dad etc.

18. Speak with her with a topic of HER interest.

19. In front of her relative praise her. Confirm/ realize that she is wonderful, and that she is a good person in front of her family.

20. Give each other gifts. You will love each other more... gifts increases love.

21. Get rid of the routine once in a while, surprise her with something, it will get rid of the rust and polish it!

22. . Think good of your spouse.

23. Ignore some of her mistakes- pretend you did not see/hear some of her small mistakes. It’s like putting a hole in your memory. Don’t save it in your memory!

24. Increase the drops of patience, especially when she is pregnant or when she is on her monthly period.

25. Expect and respect her jealousy.


26. Be humble. If your profession is good, respect that she is looking after your children, she is much more than you, she is the leader at home, her strength is your strength, and her success is your success.

27. Don't put your friends above your wife.

28. Help your wife at home

29. Help her respect your parents, you can’t force her to love them, but she can be helped to gradually love them.

30. Show your wife she is the ideal wife.

31. Remember your wife in your Prayers. It will increase the love and protect it.

32. Leave the past. It brings nothing but pain and grief. It’s not your business.


33. Don't try to show her that you are doing her a favour by doing something, like buying food for the house, because in reality we are the courier of sustenance, not the providers, as GOD is the provider. It’s also a way of being humble and thankful to GOD


34. Devil is your enemy, not your wife.


35. Take the food and put it in her mouth. The food doesn’t just go to her stomach, but straight to her heart. It increases the love and mercy between you.

36. Protect your wife from the evil and mankind. She is like a precious pearl that needs protecting from the envy of human devils.

37. Show her your smile. Smile at your wife. IT’S A CHARITY.

38. Small problems/ challenges can become a big problem. Or if there is small thing she didn't like and you keep repeating them anyway, it will create a wall between you. Don’t ignore them as it can become big.

39. Avoid being harsh hearted and moody. 'if you were harsh hearted they (the companions) would have left you...so GET RID OF IT.

40. Respect her thinking. It’s strength for you. Show you like her thoughts and suggestions.

41. Help her to achieve her potential and help her to dig and find success within as her success is your success.

42. Respect the intimate relationship and its boundaries.. Sometime she may not be feeling well; you must respect and appreciate that feeling.

43. Help her to take care of the children. Some men think it makes them appear less of a man but in fact it makes you appear a bigger man and more respected,


44. Use the gifts of the tongue and sweet talk her. Tell her she looks great, be an artist. Pick and choose gifts of the tongue.

45. Sit down and eat with her and share food with her.

46. Let her know you are travelling. Tell her the date/ time of when you are coming back also.

47. Don't leave the house as soon as trouble brews.

48. The house has privacy and secrecy. Once you take this privacy and secrecy to your friends and family you are in danger of putting a serious hole in your marriage. This secrecy stays home.


49. Encourage each other It increases and strengthens the love when you help each other perform a good deeds together

50. Know her rights, not only written in paper but engraved in your heart and engraved in your conscious.

51.Treat them with kindness and goodness. It means in happy times and in sadness treat her with goodness and fairness.

52. . Don’t force your decisions on your wife


53. When you have a dispute with your wife don’t tell everyone. It’s like leaving your wounds open to germs so be careful who you share your problems and disputes with.

54. Show your wife you really care for her health. Good health of your wife is your good health. To care for her health shows her that you love her.

55. Don’t think you are always right. No matter how good you are you have shortcomings. You are not perfect .. Get rid of this disease.

56. Share your problems, your happiness, and your sadness with her.

57. Have mercy on her weakness. Have mercy when she is weak or strong as she is the fragile vessel.... trust in your hand.

58. Remember you are her strength, someone to lean on in times of hardship.

59. Accept her as she is. If you try to straighten her you will break her (divorce). that you may dislike one habit in her but you will like another manner in her so accept her as she is.

60. Have good intention for your wife all the time, GOD monitors your intention and your heart at all times.




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Thumbs up 21st September 2014, 12:28 AM

Aadaab Sis!!

Is.... there any similar 60 or at least 6 ways... thingy for the poor entities called mazlooms... i mean husbands!! ???

jokes apart, Thank You Sis for a very True and Full of Wisdom(yes wisdom that is gained through experience) thread!!


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21st September 2014, 11:30 PM

Waah very nice quotes........zainy ji...



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